What do i do when i'm having a baby and my parents think i'm getting fat and don't know and only 13 years old?

Answer 1

Tell them!

Answer 2

I have a 13 year old daughter and believe me I would want her to tell me. I'm hoping the relationship between you and mom are strong enough that you don't have to be afraid to tell her. Yes I can only imagine how frightened you must be and yes she may react in a way you may not like or not even expect. If I were you I'd tell you're mom first. If you're a daddy's girl then tell him first. I may have been 19 when I fell pregnant for the first time and I couldn't turn to my mom but I went to my dad instead he actually took it better than I thought. I was 19 mind you but it's not easy at any age especially if your'e parents are christian like mine are. If you were my daughter I'd hope you could come to me with anything..especially something like this..good luck and the next time..tell the boy to take a hike next time....you're too young for this kind of thing. My daughter still plays with bratz...as should you :-) don't be in a hurry to grow up. Think about it this way...he's not the one that's gonna have his young body go through all these changes. Boys are just trouble.

Answer 3

First, tell your parents right away. Whatever you do, don't try to hide it from them. That'll only make them more upset with you later, and it's terrible for the baby if it doesn't get the right treatment and nutrients. I had a friend who didn't tell anyone, and didn't eat more food b/c she was trying to hide it (she did for 7 months), and the baby was born with horrible problems and defects. For his/her sake, confront someone. And in the end, your parents will still love you and help you work through this.

Answer 4

Hey I was 19 when I got pregnant and I was scared to death to tell my mom!! But the best advice I have for you is to go to a friend that you trust and 1st get there support and see there reaction then if your still kinda weary about telling your parents ask that friend to go with you cause chances are they wont freak out as bad with that friend there......OR If you have a Crisis Pregnancy Center in your area go to them they will help alot..check out www.pregnantandscared.com

Answer 5

Your parents are going to freak out, but once they have they will look after you and support you. You need to speak to your mum or dad, which ever you get on better with, get it out of the way and tell them. I know that you will think.....no way! but they are going to find out sooner or later and this is stressful enough time, dont go through it on your own. You could also ring childline, they are fab, you dont have to give your name and they will give you practical help like doctors and things x good luck

Answer 6

Tell them. If you are afraid of thier reaction then maybey have another adult in the room to calm things down. Prenatal care is important for you and the baby. Besides, they will probably notice sooner or later

Answer 7

Shyt,My Heart Almost skipped a beat!...Sweetie You'll have to tell them eventually...just like you said"you're getting fat"can't too many Reese's pieces,or big mac's get you that fat in your tummy!....So Go Ahead,before it gets too late...AND SAY SOMETHING...if you're that scared, tell your counselor @ school...they'll help w/ trying to break the news, w/ your parents. Good Luck Hun

Answer 8

well baby girl i had my first chid as a teen i didnt wont to tell my mom but you have to cause its the saftest thing to do cause you need to attend those doctors appointments so you can make sure the babys ok.and about your parents they cant be mad at you all your life babys are a beautiful gift from god and take it from me i have 2 kids and i just turn 18 january31 good luck baby but you do need to tell them.

Answer 9

As hard as it is going to be you need to tell them. You will need medical care and their support. You must tell them if you decided to keep the baby they will be the ones supporting it so they need to know so they can become financially ready baby's are not cheap.

Answer 10

Tell them because I was young and stupid and did not tell my parents and it only hurt them in the end that I never told them until after my child was born so tell them right now get off the computer and go and tell them.

Answer 11

You really need to tell them b/c you should be going to the doctor for pre-natal care. Without pre-natal care, you or your baby can die. You had sex, now be responsible and handle the consequences.