I am a psychologist and am currently doing some research in the area on relationships. Do you believe that a couple can have an open sexual relationship with other partners, both together or not, and still be deeply in love and committed to one another? Have you ever been or are you still in a sexually open relationship? Does sex between two or more people purely for the purpose of sexual gratification exist? Can you have a sexual relationship with some one and not grow emotionally attached? Some claim open sexual relationships last longer and are less stressful due to the “mistrust” issue 85% of relationships suffer from, while others claim you can’t have a relationship unless its monogamous. I implore you to answer honestly and openly. Share your beliefs, thoughts, ideas, and experiences alike. No “none of your business” answers please, as this is a very serious question. Thank you for your input.
2007-02-03 09:53:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Never been in a 'open relationship'
I believe that 'marriage' should be solely endeavoured by two people who are completely monogamous, as any relationship not based on monogamy is certainly not worthy of such a deep, spiritual, incredible and legal bond.
2007-02-03 10:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kedar 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
1-Do you believe that a couple can have an open sexual relationship with other partners, both together or not, and still be deeply in love and committed to one another?
Yes they can if they are mature enough to weigh all the pros and cons against such a realtionship and lay down boundaries such as no sex without protection
2-Have you ever been or are you still in a sexually open relationship?
No never been but if was ill and my partner needed to do this then i would try to be understanding as i would see it as a gift that i could them for not being closed minded and enabling them to be their full potential
3-Does sex between two or more people purely for the purpose of sexual gratification exist?
Yes and always will some cant go through life without wanting everyman or woman they meet for a sexual ego boost
if there is more than two people involved such is often seen as a postitive then a negative
4-Can you have a sexual relationship with some one and not grow emotionally attached
yes but wouldnt do it its not right to play with others emotions
2007-02-03 10:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by shannara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answers is different with each individual person like what is the best ice cream to feed every one, I personally would not allow it think of monogamy as best for me whether male or female I am married to a man, he knows that I have been with women and he knows he is not getting an "extra lover" this is what I believe for a long term relationship or marriage Closed relationship, having sex for gratification is fine but I would not be able to personally because I need to feel comfortable and safe with who I sleep with. I hope that helped
2007-02-03 10:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I could never do it. It goes against every fiber of my being. I'm very possessive of my man and vice versa. My relationship has lasted 20+ years which is half my life. Were it to end it would take me a very long time to trust someone like that again.
I hope this helps.
2007-02-03 10:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm rarely in a relationship that I don't put my whole heart into and the fact that someone else was touching my S.O. would drive me crazy.
Not to mention my partners tend to get jealous pretty easy.
2007-02-03 10:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me years to find my Mr Right and I’m not sharing him with anyone. I didn’t live that kind of life when I was single and I’m sure not going to start now. We’ve been together for 15 years, so we must be doing something right. I’m not judging others, I’m just saying that kind of thing isn’t for me.
2007-02-03 14:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by pissed off with abuse, goodbye! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I really get the point of your question but I will say that I was in a loving caring relationship wit one woman, Gwenneth, for 42 years until her death. We never thought of having sex outside our life together.
Should you have any other questions, please e/m me. I may not answer certain questions though.
Rose P.
2007-02-03 12:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by rose p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it would tear me apart inside and I would probably go into a state of manic depression.
2007-02-03 16:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by Rageling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Never. I don't like to share.
2007-02-03 12:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by castle h 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I would try it, not sure how it would turn out though...
2007-02-03 10:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by someone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋