Will the first time I have sexual intercourse hurt. I've heard some people say that it does, but only the first time to break the wall or something.
So does it hurt and is this true?
2007-02-03 08:50:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It hurt for me, even with lubrication until I had children.
2007-02-03 10:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by applecrisp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there,
i can really understand your concern.I was 16 yrs old when i had sex for the first time with some 26 yr old man who "cared"about me..and it was uncomfortable because i was being forced into it.he would of got angry if i had stopped him..but that is not love.I am now 27..and my weiw is that if a man cares,is gentle and has enough experince..then..you will hardly notice.Do not listen to horror stories..at the right time,with a a gentle man..you will be fine..you have the right to say "stop" at any time..if not..he is not worth it!...trust me.
2007-02-03 17:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by janine s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A first time experience is different for everyone. Sometimes the hyman is broken even before your first intercourse, there are many ways that this can happen. The important thing is to be with someone who cares about you and will be patient and caring...and someone who will appreciate the gift you are giving him.
2007-02-04 00:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Shelley B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does hurt ~ even if the guy is small. It will break the hyman and cause a bit of bleeding. The first few times of having sex were painful for me and I never actually enjoyed it until i'd done it several times.
2007-02-03 17:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Hoping I'm Answering this Question for Someone Who's 18& Over!!!!
But Anyway....My Experiment was so freaking funny..Why? Because he thought he had it in,and basicllly he was enjoying himself,and He Ejaculated, but after we were done, he asked why didn't I scream or moan?...I politely said "Well Maybe If You Had it In" I Would Have Enjoyed It".....LMAO
I tell everybody this story....But Of Course I tried agian...w/someone else,a couple of yrs later,and it was a experiment I will remember 4 the rest of my life...good luck,and be careful
2007-02-03 17:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it doesnt hurt, its just slightly uncomfortable. some women bleed a little as you break the barrier but not all women. you can also prevent this by using a tampon during your period at some point. if you do this then the barrier is already broken so it shouldnt be as uncomfortable. with me it didnt 'hurt' but all women experience something different.
2007-02-03 16:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would say discomfort is a more accurate word. you need a gentle patient partner that goes at your pace, and plenty of foreplay 1st, but only do it if you really feel ready, never feel pressurised or do it to keep a boyfriend
2007-02-04 04:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be uncomfortable and nerves plays a big part in this, just take things slow after a couple of times you will feel alot better and more relaxed
2007-02-04 01:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by nicolefrenzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard that it usually does hurt because your hymen is still intact. It's a little painful at first, but after a while it doesn't hurt at all.
2007-02-03 16:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its the hymen that breaks usually and its usually only a tiny bit nippy for a few seconds, it gets better after that tho good luck xx
2007-02-03 17:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋