because i didnt like him and i told him that hes 16 and hes a junior im 14 and a freshman i rejected him because i didnt like him and i didnt want to just go out with him so that he wouldnt feel bad he said he could never get the girl he wants and he was talking all sweet to me and stuff is it good that i rejected him? did i make the right descicion? i want to keep him happy i dnt want him to be said i want him to be glad that were friends so how do i do that? were new friends
2007-02-03 08:46:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but we have a lot of things in common our birthday is in febuary and his is the 23 and me 20 and were both from L.a and we both moved here when we were 10 and its just like yeah we have a lot in common but i just dont have those feelings that he has for me
2007-02-03 08:49:03 · update #1
you did the right thing you don`t have anything to be a shamed of
2007-02-03 08:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Universe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u didn't feel that way about him then u did the right thing. u can't always plz everyone. if u tried u wouldn't be able 2 4 long. he should understand that u have said no and don't want 2 go out with him. i think it's great that ur going 2 be his friend even though u don't have deeper feelings 4 him. i think u did the right thing if u didn't feel that way about him. do what u want and follow ur heart. if u don't want 2 be with him and u said no then u did the right thing.
2007-02-03 17:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. If you don't feel the same way, don't go out with him. Sympathy dates just lead to the interested person becoming even more attached to you even though you don't return their feelings because they think that you're serious about them. If you find that you feel the same at a later point, go out with him then, but don't go out with him just because you feel bad for him.
2007-02-03 16:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by M L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes too desperate. tell him too go after girls is age. plus, its so very often, that your love is right by your side but is unnoticed. yes you did make the right choice, better to tell him no, the truth, than to fake that you like hm, and then break up with him. If you said yes, his hopes would be high and then youd break him. its good what you did! ;)
2007-02-03 16:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by open_minded_grl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right choice, have him wait till your ready or at least a lil older then you are now before you make the next step.
2007-02-03 16:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing for sure,it would have been totally wrong if you went out with him because you feel sorry or didn't want to hurt him.never do anything your not completely comfortable with
2007-02-03 16:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry.ive rejected guys bcuz i didnt like them too.and thyeve recovered.im still friends with to of them(the others complicated).i dont need a boyfriend to be happy.
2007-02-03 16:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by ♥BermudaShortzROCK♦ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good that you told him. He would really be upset if he found out that you went out with him so that he didn't feel bad.
2007-02-03 16:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good thing you rejected him. He sounds desperate.
2007-02-03 16:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋