I'm only 14 and I'm pregnant but the father dosn't care about me or the baby and I havn't told anyone's parents yet should I tell my parents and his.
2007-02-03 08:35:40 · 15 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Either Way...W/ Either Decision U Make,You'll Have 2 tell them eventually!...Because you're 14,and You'll begin 2 Show Soon!...But Its Not The End Of the World, Just Remember" That ANY decision's you make,from here on out...will effect the life of your unborn and you"...And Please Don't be Ashamed,And Don't Call your pregnancy a "Mistake"...its a "Miracle" and A Major "Mild stone" You Must Overcome....And As Far As School Goes...Look up Penn Foster College (its a on-line school) If u choose to keep this baby...u can complete some course's,while you're pregnant!!! Good Luck Sweetie,
2007-02-03 08:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is such unexpected news for you--it can be really emotional and scary. I see lots of girls your age who are going through things like this and end up being so happy, responsible, and glad it was part of their lives. The choices you make now will impact your life and your baby's life forever. Be careful who you listen to--others have their own pre-conceived ideas about life and people--don't take hurtful opinions or judgments to heart, just let it roll off your back. You have enough to think of now without dealing with other people's reactions.
You do need support, though. Think carefully about a few close people you really trust and only tell them. I do think telling your parents is really important--they usually surprise me and their girls by being shocked at first, but then very supportive and caring. Think about what's important to you and make decisions considering what you will wish you had done when you are 20 and 30 and in a different stage of life. Also, trust yourself. You might be a lot stronger and smarter than you realize right now. I'll be thinking about you and wishing you the very best.
2007-02-03 17:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by hokie mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is tell your parents... they might freak but hey at least you told them right? Have them talk to the baby's father and his parents... if he doesn't help his parents probably will help out.... my husband's friend went through this with his daughter... the dude was saying that he never had nothing with her because "she wasn't good enough for him" (boys are dumb) he told him that maybe NOT NOW but she was good enough when he was sleeping with her-he was speechless.. but the guy's parents helped her with everything and her parents were really supportive... of course, they might fuss but hey... at least you will have some help... don't hide this from them... it was unexpected... but the outcome is going to be a BIG blessing... good luck!
2007-02-03 16:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents. They will find out any way. They will be upset, but it is better if they hear it from you. Then they can help you with whatever decisions you need to make. You don't need to tell his parents right now. Talk to yours first. Do you have any older siblings or a counselor at school that can help you talk to your parents? Good Luck.
2007-02-03 16:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by crystalslippers2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Please tell your parents, Since your 14 they're gonna need some time to get used to the idea. Believe me, You'll feel better when you do. Im preg. and 20. And it was still extremely hard to tell my mother. don't tell them at the same time. Get your mom alone and talk to her calmly..Say that you need her help you can't do this on your own. She'll prob. be mad but she will calm down after a while. So relax. don't stress too much.
2007-02-03 23:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Kaiden 6-5-10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have done this to yourself. how are you going to have a baby when you may be in the 8th grade still. If you don't have a job you won't be able to take care of it or hire a babysitter. You need to tell you parents immediately and wait till' you get married next time.
2007-02-03 16:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by morgieDawn*(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell your parents right away. They might be mad, but atleast you will have some support. You need to see a Dr. right away. Planned Parenthood, can also help you. They can help you find a Dr. or get on Medicaid if needed. Just please make sure you tell your parents you will need all the support you can get. Good Luck Hun.
2007-02-03 16:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats the first thing u need to do..When i was 19 and got pregnant with my at the time boyfriend *now husband* i was living at home and thats the first thing i did when i told them..my dad didnt mind but my mom went crazy, me and him made it through though...good luck. tell them tonight when u are sitting down and eating...tell them nicely u have something to say and right now u just need there support and there love...
2007-02-03 16:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey i hope you realize that having sex before your married was a wrong choice you probably realize you arnt ready for a baby but know you have one you have the option of adoption but i dont recomend abortion but honey start by telling your parents then talk with them and see what your next step should be god bless you and your baby!
2007-02-03 16:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents for sure!!!! they can help you get child support,because if he's proven the father, he will be made to give you child support until that child turns 18!!!
2007-02-03 16:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Two Peas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋