Whenever I see a really hott guy somewhere in public with my family I never tell them that he's hott. Whenever I like somebody at school I never tell my family. It just wouldn't be comftorable talking to them about it. The only people I really talk to about this stuff are my friends. Is that okay???
2007-02-03 07:56:57 · 26 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Fine
2007-02-03 07:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that makes you feel comfortable then thats completely fine. In the future you may want to share your relationships with your family, because at the end of the day your family should respect you for whatever choice or choices you make in your life.
Maybe that is what you are scared of, letting them down or having a relationship with someone they will not approve of.
2007-02-03 16:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about a thing. If you aren't comfortable with your family, then don't say a thing to them unless you need to. especially for this, about hot guys and girls. this isn't that serious so you can do whatever you want. I encourage you talking to your friends. This way, you can learn more about the guy or girl as well as getting other people's thoughts about the. however, when you get close, try to be careful. when you get a serious relationship with a boyfriend, then maybe you should start thinking about telling your family.
2007-02-03 16:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by firedemon34526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that unless u want to tell them about that kinda stuff. If u do, then sit them down (I suggest starting with the family member ur closest to) and just say that u wish u talked more about things in ur life. They're ur family...they'll accept almost anything u say. Otherwise, then yeah just stick to friends if that makes u most comfortable.
2007-02-03 16:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when do family members have to know everything? Of course it's okay to just tell your friends...that's the way it is for most other people too.
2007-02-03 16:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea thats okay! you are just like me! i only tell my firneds i like someone. i always feel wierd when i see a hott guy in public and dont tell my family. i think if i tell them they will embarrass me or treat me different.
2007-02-03 16:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's okay. You do what makes you feel comfortable. Some people are more open than others. I am 24 and am married but I never told my parents who I like or didn't like and no one ever thought any less of me:)
2007-02-03 16:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's how i am.... for a while, i didn't even talk to my friends about that kind of thing, i just kept it to myself. because i was afraid that if they told the person i liked, i'd feel stupid and i'd be in a vulnerable position. but if you don't get out there and do your thing, you're never going to get anywhere.
i still think that it's weird talking to my fam about my love-life etc. but then again, i don't think that it's majorly important for your family to know who you think is hot. don't stress it
2007-02-03 16:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by sprklngdimundz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is allperfectly normal honest why would you need tell them keepit for your self and friends, you would not want your family members telling you every time they thougt some one was fit would you. Crushes and theoneswe fancy are private to us and to close friends is saves embaresment from mums and dads
2007-02-03 16:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by chewlips25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never talked to my mother about stuff like that but my daughter and I talk about stuff like that all the time. I like the relationship with my daughter alot better than the one I had with my mother.
2007-02-03 16:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋