I HAVE HAD THE WITNESS THAT SAYS MY DAUGHTERS BIRTH FATHER TRY TO TESTIFY IN COURT ABOUT HIM BUYING URINE FROM OTHERS TO PASS A DRUG TESTS TO SEE HER BUT THEY WILL NOT LISTEN TO THIS WITNESS WITHOUT HIM PRESENT AND WHEN HE FOUND OUT THAT THEY WOULD BE THERE TO DO SO HE DOESNT SHOW UP...MY HUSBAND NOW WHO IS A WONDERFUL MAN AND A SOLIDER IN THE US ARMY WANTS TO ADOPT HER BUT WE CANT GET THAT DONE WITHOUT CONSENT FROM THE BIRTH FATHER..HE IS NOT WILLING BUT BEING 12 GRAND BEHIND IN CHILD SUPPORT AND NOW WANTING TO SEE HER SINCE I HAVE A NEW HUSBAND AND A NEW BABY....HE HASNT AND DOESNT CALL HER AND DOES NOTHING FOR HER AND NEVER HAS...WE MOVED AWAY TO WHERE MY HUSBAND WAS STATIONED WHEN HE RETURNED FROM IRAQ THE FIRST TIME...HE WENT TO COURT WHILE I WAS THERE AND THEY GRANTED HIM VISITS THERE..HE CAME TO ONE AND THEN NEVER CALLED HER AGAIN AND HE DIDNT ATTEND THE OTHER TWO GRANTED TO HIM..I HAVE MOVED BACK TO MY HOME TOWN SINCE MY HUSBAND IS IN IRAQ AGAIN FOR TOUR TWO...NOW HE WANTS VISI
2007-02-03 07:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by ELVISLOVER 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Sounds like you should 1) stop YELLING, and 2) speak to a lawyer who specializes in family law.
Also, getting legal advice about your children's custody online doesn't sound like the smartest thing to do. If your husband is in Iraq, I can't see why your ex's being behind on child support should even bother you. Despite what you think, he has ever right to see his child (even if he doesn't just hand you money whenever you need it.) Signing over custodial rights will not only give your daughter a bad impression about him, but maybe he's just waiting for her to be an adult (so that you and you're husband aren't in the picture) for his visits. It just seems to me like there's more than just "He won't let my husband adopt my kids" behind all this.
Again, talk to a lawyer, if that's what you think is best for your daughter. And remember how this effects HER more than it does YOU.
2007-02-03 08:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Athena 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So you divorced you husband drug him thru the courts and now you are living in adultry and have been trashing your real husband blaming him for your hate and calling him all manner of names and have been interferring with his relationship with his daughter to the point of kidnaping his daughter and moving out of state and you have been bitter and mean to him from many years causing him great pain and suffering. And every time he tries to have a relationship with his daughter you seek away to justify you hate for this poor man and will not allow any contact and make up excuses and even break the law to justify you sins before God and Him. I always belive in calling a dog and dog, and shooting straight is a part of being mature.
You frankly are very messed up mentally and might want to seek professional help to deal with your destructive anger and the demons your are dealing with. Because all i hear is me me me me me. Not once have i heard any form of love in your tone or words. All i heard is me me me me once again just like is said you are twisted in your mind.
You know there are always two sides to a story and at this point i understand why your husband might want a relationship with his daughter. But i will assure you he does not want one with you period. He should have had you jailed for all this. It would have been just payment from your crimes against him and your own daughter.
You enjoy your sin because when your daughter is grown she will run away from you. That is a promise, and i bet everyone does when they get the first chance.
2007-02-03 08:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas A 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In most states, you cant link child support to visitation. You CAN, however, contact the state attourney generals office and have them go after him. The proceedure is slightly different state to state. But I can tell you...Once they start the process, he will make himself scarce. Eventually he will have to pay or get put in the bucket (jail). Tell your husband he is doing honorable work and we pray for his safe return. good luck.jason
2007-02-03 08:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Magic Mouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back and properly punctuate your question. You would not believe how hard it is to read a paragraph without proper puntuation.
2007-02-03 08:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your #1 concern has to be for your daughter, and that is how you decide what to do.
If it is better for her sperm donor to visit her, then you should allow it.
If if is not better for him to see her, then he should not.
2007-02-03 08:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by Feeling Mutual 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't use all caps, it looks like you're yelling.
Ignore him. If he doesn't even show up, what's the problem?
2007-02-03 07:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋