This would be a lot easier if I knew your age. D: But anyway, I'll tell you what I know.
Almost every single person feels these kind of feelings at some point when they're growing up. Your hormones tend to be all mixed up, and sometimes these things happen. Many people begin to doubt whether they're straight or not, so I'm guessing you're going through this period of time. This usually occurs in females when they're 13-16, in males when they're 17-20. (This is actually the reason why so many people around those ages claim they're bisexual. They're just going through this phase.) If you're around this age, don't worry, this is perfectly normal! I went through this same sort of thing a few months ago, and I started to doubt that I was straight... It wasn't a good experience at all, but after a while it just stopped and I realized that I'm straight, have no feelings for girls, and that was that.
So in other words, don't worry about it, it'll pass. However, you might finally realize that you might be homosexual rather than straight. From the fact that you said you love women and you're straight, I doubt this will happen however.
Best of luck to you!
2007-02-03 09:08:31
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answered by Koko 4
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perhaps there is a quality that this person has that is in a way sexually stimulating. Maybe he has qualities that a female might have. or like so many others are saying you may just miss him. Maybe you find the idea of not being able to "have him" as a friend makes you stimulated...kind of a "playing hard to get" kind of thing that women do sometimes, only this time it's a man. maybe the sexual act would, in your mind's eye, make everything right again. and if everything is right again then you can have internal peace. Just some ideas for you!
2007-02-04 03:37:47
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answered by JDOG 2
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I have no idea, but don't be fooled into thinking ure gay by ppl it's probably just an experimental phase u're going through, sometimes ppl develop strong feelings for a member of the same sex it does not mean neccessarily that u are gay. And it culd be the fact that u h8 each others guts that ure having these feelings.
2007-02-03 15:49:25
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answered by purpletear2003 3
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I hate my friend but I miss her at the same time. I would kill her if I had the chance, and I would torture her until death. This stuff, I know how you feel, and sometimes I felt like a lesbian, even though I'm not. Anyways, it means that you miss him dearly. Just, try to forget about him. Yeah, those odd feelings are gone, now.
I still hate her.
A lot, a lot, alot.
xD
LOL
She's not my friend anymore.
Why? She turned into a wh*re.
2007-02-03 15:57:51
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answered by Carrot Cake 4
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if these thoughts are during a dream it is possible that it doesn't mean you want to have sex with him. I read an article before when a child had a dream about having sex with a close family member. It was not because she wanted to have sex with that person, howere the child was craving attention or some form of love from that family member. Maybe you just miss being friends, being with that person.
2007-02-03 15:48:45
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answered by afdd0101 2
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I'm not a psychologist or a therapist, and I don't think you need one. I think simply, that you miss the friendship that you two once shared. Perhaps you could be the bigger man and try to talk to him and hopefully work out your differences. Maybe again be friends. Good luck
2007-02-03 15:54:09
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answered by Lisa C 1
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To seduce someone whether it's male or female is to empower yourself over that person. As you both used to be mates and have now fallen out and actually hate him and want to have fisticuffs with him shows that you are fantasising about domination over him. This is just coming out in a different way, that's all.
2007-02-03 15:54:19
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answered by Spottie 2
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It's your brains safe way of exploring.
Since you have no good feelings for him, your brain knows that there is nothing to loose if you explore bi-sexuality thinking about him and decide you do not like it.
It won't make a friendship weird because there isn't one.
It won't make talking to him difficult because you don't talk.
2007-02-03 15:55:03
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answered by murkglider 5
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i shouldnt be 2 worried. most ppl at some point in their lives have fantisies about someone of the same sex. you could be experiencing these thaughts due to your history with him which could set him apart from some of the other guys. try not to worry to much but whatever happens good luck
2007-02-03 15:59:04
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answered by tammie x 1
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You don't say, but I would guess that you are a teenager, confused about your own sexual orientation. Live with it a while longer, and your true sexual orientation will become clear to you.
2007-02-03 16:51:00
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answered by Ghostrider 3
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