we stay 2 to 3 days without kissing and when we do its not what i use to feel before. we are married 2 years now and do love eachother. on my side personally dont like his deep kisses...they are too wet and have told him that but nothing changed. dont know what is his thinking why we dont kiss. The rest of the relationship is normal to fantastic because we feel that we were made for eachother but this lack of kissing puts me down...
2007-02-03 07:32:52 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-02-03 07:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for almost 2 years now as well and most of the time we are so involved with everything else going on in our lives, we don't even think to kiss each other. And honestly, sometimes weeks will go by without a passionate, intimate kiss. We love each other very much and have a great sex life (rediscovering each other after having a baby).
I sometimes don't like my husband's deep kisses either. They can get kind of wet and occasionally he goes in for them at the wrong time, when I'm really not feeling into being touchy. I do find that I can enjoy them if I take a hot shower, relax, and have a little somethin' to drink!
Seriously though, there are many books out there on kissing for couples. Make the investment and read it together. It'll be fun and maybe you guys will learn new ways to please each other - just by kissing!
2007-02-03 07:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by CM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After your married awhile the kissing all the time isn't done as much. The love is still there but you have been doing this so long , a little break isn't the end of the world. I 've known couples that never kiss each other even in sex and I don't see them complaining. They kiss if the other is going off somewhere just a kiss goodbye and kiss when they get back. It isn't as unusual as you may think. Some people like to kiss all the time some don't it just it's your life live it the way your happy. If it feels , do it.
Whatever Floats Your Boat.
2007-02-03 07:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my husband for 14 years and it's completely normal for things to slow down. We give each other a quick peck at night and occasionally before going to work. He does not like deep kisses unless we are intimate - he claims deep kisses turn men on and signal to them that we are in the mood. I can only imagine how your husband feels since you told him you do not like his kisses. He was probably crushed and embarassed. The only way to fix that is to show him what you like and teach him. There are books and tips you can read. I'm sure if you teach him and show him that you still love him, things will get better. Use chocolate, honey, strawberries, whipped cream, etc. Get creative. If you do teach him, be careful to not compare him to other guys you've kissed. That will make him hurt more. Good luck.
2007-02-03 08:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by tepjoule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a couple of days without kissing and you're already worrying? Don't worry! As long as you say the love is still there, that is so much more important! My husband used to love to kiss all the time when we first started dating but after we've been together for so long and got married, we hardly ever kiss anymore! I still like to kiss but he says he's not really into kissing anymore so i just let it be, hopefully his love of affection will replace it. Anyways, you should be grateful to have a husband who still kisses you every so often.
2007-02-03 07:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Joyfully 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband doesn't like "deep" kisses, so in the two years we've been together we have never "french" kissed at all. We kiss, but it's more of a "peck" on the lips or on the cheek, and it is usually part of our daily expression of affection, along with hugging and spending time together. I don't think you can measure love by how much affection is expressed, and in which way; it all depends on the couple. I honestly don't think you have anything to worry about. If you want more kissing - start kissing him more; if you don't - be happy that things are the way they are!
2007-02-03 07:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe suggest limiting kisses, for instance me and my boyfriend mainly kiss goodbye in the am before leaving for work and kiss goodnight before bed, that way you can still kiss without the awkwardness, and show affection a little bit, you are married and should be able to find a happy medium with kissing, that way too if you mainly kiss goodbye or goodnight they will be quicker kisses so you don't get the drowned wet feeling as much. good luck.
2007-02-03 07:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is a very important part of a relationship. Its a way to say the word you can't say. You should kiss each day, even if its a quick kiss on the lips good morning, a kiss on the forehead when he sys i love you or nice kiss deep kiss when you two are alone. Teach him to be a better kisser.
2007-02-03 07:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by apple513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Sarah, i'm so sorry you're dealing with this back! No, i will't say that you're over reacting because a kiss is a kiss and that i ought to hate it if i found my husband had kissed yet another woman! The constructive element is that, he got here to WILLINGLY and admitted what occurred 2 year'S in the past, meaning, he has been innocuous for the reason that then, we are hoping:D i will't see why you ought to no longer telephone this different woman- in spite of everything, you're literally unlikely to be talking to her abusive husband, yet her. you could say that this has damage you very a lot and also you're constructive that if she were in love consisting of her husband, she ought to sense an identical. i ought to income this and also you'd be well mannered about it. This can also be a type of closure for you; she would remorseful about what she did. right this moment, you ought to concentration on the constructive factors that your hubby does love you very a lot and pray to Jehovah jointly, to ask for the ability to get over this discomfort. i'm the following in case you want to communicate. Your sis Suzanne
2016-11-02 05:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He kisses you and you b*tch and p*ss and moan about it. He doesn't kiss you and you b*tch and p*ss and moan about it. What fun you must be to live with.
Either he has always kissed this way, meaning you knew long ago he was a wet kisser, and you married him anyway even though it disgusts you, which means you are fairly dense, or he just changed to wet kissing and he doesn't care what you think.
Either way , one of you is a complete jackass.
Kissing is important to some couples, meaningless to others. It seems to be important to you, as long as everyone keeps their lips tight and pursed like a volcano and you're kissing Aunt Selma's hairy mole.
Tell him if his kissing stays wet then no p*ssy for 2 weeks. That'll train him. It's either that or get used to no kissing or dump his slobbering a s s.
2007-02-03 09:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the reason why you are not kissing is because you have told him you do not like the way he kisses.
On the other hand you say the lack of kissing is depressing to you.
There must have been a time when you did like his kisses since you did marry him, perhaps you need to look deeper and see what are the real issues.
2007-02-03 08:42:03 · answer #11 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋