i hate school?

Question

when i was new in school the teacher asked this girl to take of me till i get to no my way around but as soon as i told the girl i didnt smoke she started tom hate me she picks on me and insults me treating to beat me up
she even came to my desk yesterday at school and told me infront of my friends that i look like kingkong and bigmama at the same time the girl is the dumest in class she is nice when she needs something and is so rude

Answer 1

If she doesn't leave you alone go to the teacher... I know what you're thinking, "I'll look like a dweeb for telling the teacher," but this girl obviously has major insecurities and takes it out on you. If you don't wanna tell the teacher, stand up to her. Tell her exactly how you feel... Don't back down. She'll soon leave you alone.

Words hurt, I know, but you've got nothing to be ashamed of!! You DO NOT look like king kong... I'm sure you're really pretty... She's just jealous!!

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

She sounds like a typical bully: an idiotic, insecure, pathetic loser. Pay no attention to her. Talk to someone, even the teacher. They will treat your issue with confidence, so don't worry about 'telling'. Also, think up some comebacks, and deliver them with confidence in front of the class, when she picks on you. That'll bring her down a peg or two, and she'll soon back off when she realises she can't get one over on you. Good luck.

Answer 3

Ask the teacher for a new "buddy". This girl is obviously someone you don 't want to hang out with. She's a bully and should be reported to your teacher and/or your Principal. In our school we have a "No Tolerance" policy for things like this girl is doing to you and they are dealt with seriously. It sounds like she's jealous of you or she's trying to look "big" with her friends. Stay away from that crowd and ignore any taunts or bad remarks. She's just looking to get a reaction from you. When she doesn't get any she'll move on. She'll get hers later by ending up with no true friends in her life unless she learns to treat people with decency and respect. She must have some serious problems in her life to make her act that way.
I'm sure there are some nice girls with good character traits that you can make friends with.
Good luck!

Answer 4

Please do not take any notice. Perhaps you could quietly have a word with her and say how you appreciated her showing you around your new school. However, you prefer not to smoke and dont want to be judged on your choice to refuse. Also inviting her to your home (with parents permission), to do homework would or should pass on the message that you want to be friends and you are trying. If she continues to ridicule you in class or elsewhere, you should clearly say that you have offered her your hand in friendship what more does she want. If this still fails then perhaps a quiet word with your teacher about how you have gone about trying to make her your friend and what she suggest would help. Good Luck and try not to dwell on it because it may become over exagerated and that will do no one any good. Good Luck again.

Answer 5

Sorry to sound like a broken record but you must tell
The school itself does not like this kind of thing going on and must have policies to deal with it
but they can't do anything unless you tell
The girl is probably afraid that you may become more popular than her - real insecurity
or she may have problems of her own at home and need the help that counselling can give her
HELP HER. HELP YOURSELF . TELL.

Answer 6

don't hate school. Just avoid getting in touch with her and try to be with better friends. Ignore everything she says besides, she's a bad influence. Don't mind whatever she say about you, you know the truth and she's just telling that because you're too far different from her. Ignore whatever she say, avoid getting in touch with her, have good friends and focus on more important things and you'll not be bothered by her bad attitudes.

Answer 7

I used to have this problem when i was in school. Why dont you try talking to your guidence councellor or school psycologist. Is this girl the only one who is doing this, if she is then she is a loser, and you should just ignore her. If there are others then talk to someone about it. School can be horrible, but be strong, dont give in to the temptation of smoking or taking drugs to fit in. I am sure you have other friends who dont listen to rumors and stupid insults. If its really getting bad, maybe you can talk to your parents about changing schools.
good luck

Answer 8

As hard as it may seem, you need to ignore this girl. The more she taunts you, you need either to walk away, or just look at her.
SHE is the one that's making a fool of herself. Leave her to it.
You will make friends of your own, who share your own interests.
It's awful being the 'new kid', but eventually other kids will come up to you, and ask you stuff about your background and stuff they don't know of yet. Stick with it, acceptance comes eventually.
You have already proved who is the bigger person already. You, by not reacting.
Good for you!

Answer 9

She sounds really rediculous. She is obviously insecure, probably jealous. You are very smart for not smoking, and try talking to the teacher/counselor. GOOD LUCK

Answer 10

just be satisfied with the thoughts that:
she is dumb and u r clever
she will be ugly because of smoking u won't
she will be unhealthy u won't
she will end up working part-time in MacDonalds u won't
she will end up a loner u won't

Good luck xxxx