i went into my husbands email to edit some pics and found this email it said - mark how are you?it was good to see you again even if you did give me the cold shoulder.your sons are so big! mary- it sounds like she ran into my husband and his sons some where. but why the follow up email and whats with the comment about "cold sholder".my husband is the friendlist person i'm sure he was nice to her but what was she expecting? i do have to say they have a huge history together and she has made problems in his last marrage.the last time they saw each other was about 4 yrs ago.
2007-02-03 06:53:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You would rather the e-mail said "It was so wonderful seeing you and being with you again!"? You should be asking your husband about this if you couldn't figure it out for yourself, but It is obvious he ran into her and blew her off. You should be glad. And I hope your husband knows you read his e-mail, or you may just be his new ex-wife.
2007-02-03 07:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finding an (1) email from a former gf doesn't necessarily mean there's need to worry. Although, it's natural to feel that anything offered from an ex-gf would automatically pose as a concern/threat for most of us, considering they were once romantically involved with our husband. Trusting a husband can override and settle mixed emotions and knowing all that as true, the one thing that concerns me in this particular situation is the fact that she's prone to being a homewrecker and maintaining contact with your husband. How or why has that been managed/arranged? (maybe there's a reasonable explanation)
I think it would be best for you to approach your husband and discuss the email you retrieved. You don't have any evidence to accuse him of any destructive behavior, but "you" do need and deserve some questions answered, for your own peace of mind.
And the ex needs to get herself a life !
2007-02-03 15:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Cara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a hubby that loves you and beings he gave her the cold shoulder you have nothing to worry about! Some hubby`s would have taken the advantage of a old flame but yours had apparently a bad relationship with her and did not want anything to do with her. Good Luck to you and your hubby and many more years to come!
2007-02-03 15:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Carol H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold shoulder means he didn't give her the time of day!
He poliely left when he saw her and gave her as little information as possible.
I would ignore the email and be grateful my husband is faithful.
and gave her the brush off, the cold shoulder, instead of a warm hello and hug, and god, be glad he doesn't want her in your life.,
He's not telling you cuz he doesn't want you to worry.
Don't read his emails.
Don't bring this up you snooped....no live with it.
He's a good guy, he didn't do anything wrong.
Live your life with your husband and be happy,
don't bring up troubles or make trouble.
DON'T BRING UP THE PAST.
She was in some place he was and tried to talk to him.
and she wanted to email him to make you jealous.
it's not about HIM-- it's her problem.
let it go. be happy He loves you!
2007-02-03 15:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, it sounds like the "Cold shoulder" he gave her was because he didn't want to have any conversation with her. Not interested. Approach your husband and ask him if he'd delete her from his address book. She may not be happy but in the long run, he's proven his love to you and your husband is NOT interested.
2007-02-03 14:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by cora m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. She sounds like a stalker. If you really want, confront your new husband and ask what the deal was, but be very careful about how you ask because you don't want to sound like you don't trust him. Your best bet is to let it go though. Unless he is responding back, it's probably nothing.
2007-02-03 15:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by wl_hung 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband giving the old girlfriend the cold shoulder is what he was supposed to do. You have nothing to worry about.
2007-02-03 15:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
..do not be bothered by the e mail. Obviously your husband has just acted appropriately and be happy. If the incident was never been brought up .. it is because it was not a big deal for him anyway.
2007-02-03 15:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by CYRILLE102 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should consider the source and forget about it. Delete the email and block further communication from her. He obviously doesn't want anything to do with her or he wouldn't have given her the "cold shoulder".
2007-02-03 15:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there's anything to worry about. Obviously he made it perfectly clear to her that he isn't available and that's a good thing. I think you should feel good about your husbands reaction and put her in the past where she belongs.Don't let her cause any waves in your marriage. Forget she ever existed.
2007-02-03 14:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋