Does that make you bi?
My friend says that she has looked @ girls.
Does that make you bi?
If you are bi, how would you know?
P.S. I dont know how this would help but my friends name is Caitlynn.
2007-02-03 06:47:36 · 10 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am not bi.
I am straight.
I have a bf who I would do any thing for.
This is for my friend Caitlynn.
She wanted me to post it.
So I did.
2007-02-03 06:53:47 · update #1
A straight female can appreciate another female's body or looks without being interested in them.
If she's starting to look at them and think dirty or non platonic thoughts, then yeah, I'd say she's at least bi.
If she is bi it would be pretty easy for her to know if she just thinks about it.
2007-02-03 07:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I want to be straight forward with you. Homosexuality is constructed. Often innoscently by many children. Children forget the experiances they had as small children. They still construct themselves from those experiances.
First understand homosexualality is constructed, just like hetrosexuality is constructed.
The Formula For Constructing A Homosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way: A Predisposition
Toward Homosexuality Plus That First Homosexual Experience
Multiplied By Pleasurable and Positive Homosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added More Homosexual Experiences Multiplied By More Pleasurable Thoughts Constructs A Homosexual.
The Formula For constructing A Hetrosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way: A Predisposition
Toward hetrosexuality Plus That First Hetrosexual Experience
Multiplied By Pleasurable and Positive Hetrosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added More Hetrosexual Experiences Multiplied By
More Pleasurable Thoughts Constructs A Hetrosexual
Once you see that this is how it happened and really understand it, it becomes your choice to work with it. I was 40 before i understood this. I was homosexual scince i could remember. Then I prayed and the memmory of when i first experianced homosexuality came to me, and I could understand how it was constructed.
It would be hard to understand this if you can not remember your first experiance, but you could still understand this.
A coulpe of good sights for you to read if you want help overcoming the homosexuality in you. First I want to say, it could take years or it could take less time, everyone is different. Check out the sights below, they may help.
http://www.ilovejesus.com/befree/pnartic...
http://www.ccel.org/contrib/exec_outline...
I would like to say the christian prospective does not talk about gender nonconformity. It can be a predisposition to homosexuality. Not all children that had a gender nonconformity will construct homosexuality. so it is not the leading or only predisposition to homosexuality. Expermenting, being drawn into expermenting all usually are the predisposition, even name calling can be part of the predispositioning to constructing homosexuality. Not all children that construct homosexuality have gender nonconformity.
As i say it is often innoscently constructed, then as an adult we learn it was not the plan of God. God we know planned us to construct hetrosexuality, but our choices may lead us in another direction for God to use in our plan That he has for us. Everything is the power of god.
Let me leave you with this in mind:
"AND SUCH WERE SOME OF YOU. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God." (1 Co 6:11)
Learning to seek God, and walking by the Spirit of God is what I am doing now, and there is no shame, just learning.
2007-02-04 03:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a lesbian, I can't tell you whether you are bi or not. I mean, everyone looks at girls.. you should be more specific, like how do you look at girls? What do you think about when you look at them? Maybe you just envy something about them, or maybe it's deeper then that. I mean, if you think about sexual things with a female, you are probably bi. It's not a big deal if you are, just try it out, experience a little, and figure it all out, then you will really know :) Good luck girl!
2007-02-03 14:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well since your friend looks at girls, does she have feelings about them (crush)? If she does then she would be a bi or lesbian, but then again does she still has interest in both sex? if yes then she's a bi and if not then a lesbian.
2007-02-03 14:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Đarah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to sleep with those girls, then she's bi or lesbian.
2007-02-04 02:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to be labled and just go with what feels right
2007-02-03 14:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by KTbaybee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth.
~Alan Watts
2007-02-03 15:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
she is probably bi
2007-02-03 14:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by txlesbian06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude you a lesbian!
stop lookin at girls now!
2007-02-03 14:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
you think she is pretty
2007-02-03 17:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by Shawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋