What do guys like more??!?

Question

I am not stylish, or trendy... I wear average clothes (I do match... I'm not COMPLETELY hopeless...). I consider myself to be very pretty, I am short with long really curly brown hair, and I do wear alot of makeup. I am very easy going. I enjoy music(which is my major), Dungeons and Dragons, kickboxing, paintballing, football, soccar, yoga, being spontaneous, and salsa dancing... I was a dancer for 4 years in my high school band as well... but there is something that bothers me... I have never had a boyfriend.

Is it me and if not, what are guys looking for?

if you want to see what I look like I have myspace (www.myspace.com/janilleclaudette) and facebook (just look me up under Janille Sloan Armstrong Atlantic State University)... is ther something I can do to get guys to notice me more? PLEASE HELP!!?

my link to myspace (after the slash) is janilleclaudette (it won't show up because of safety reasons...)

Answer 1

I'm not an expert, but I've been there before. And it took the help of a good friend to fix it. The problem is not your clothes, height, weight, lifestyle, or activities. (In my case, the problem was me) In your case, the problem could be you, or at least, how others perceive you. Most likely, lack of self-confidence. Others might mistakenly believe this because of vibes they receive, whether correct or not.

Also, as long as you are "chasing", you are less likely to get "caught" by someone else looking. Stop and wait for everyone else to catch up to you every now and then.

Find a good friend to talk to and help you through. Go out and have a good time and stop worrying. When others see you having fun, confident, and happy with yourself, then you will see more people who like your air of confidence and want to be around you more.

The final thing, is wait for the right one, and don't just settle for someone who asks you out. Sometimes, we lower our standards when prospects are lower. Never sacrifice your standards when the tide is low. The next high tide will bring in plenty of prospects.

And when Mr. Right does finally show his face, he will see a confident, pretty, active and fun-loving person waiting for him.

Answer 2

I can't see your MySpace. It says "Invalid Friend ID.
This user has either cancelled their membership, or their acccount has been deleted."

Well, I think that you shouldn't worry about it. The time will come. If there is a guy out there that likes you for who you are, he will come to you. You shouldn't have to change for ANYONE! You should stop worrying about it. Don't chase after guys or anything either, that's extremely unattractive. You can start hanging out with some guys though. You know, make guy friends and stuff. That would be your gateway into the guy world. All you have to do is talk to them and be yourself. There's bound to be a guy in that group that will like you just the way you are.


Best of luck!

Answer 3

well, maybe u shouldnt wear so much make-up or make ur makeup more natural if ur pretty and nice all tht then it is not u it is the guys they r just not good enough 4 u

Answer 4

You play DnD?! Call me

Btw your link is not working

Nvm, nice tat or painting or w/e

Answer 5

Honey you're great.. don't worry when the time comes you'll find your guy. Just remeber to be yourself! :)

Answer 6

it wont let me see your myspace r u sure u typed it right.

Answer 7

you look cute. you could add some more cardio exercises to your workout routine. are you looking for guys or are you expecting them to come to you?

Answer 8

I like you!