If I change my name and my ss# and move across the country...could my husband or family still be able to track me down??How can I make myself
disappear??I know that my life would threatened if I were to leave him....but I'm fed up and I need to leave.Any advice would surely help, Thanks and God bless
2007-02-03 06:36:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he has never hit me or really been bad to me....I dont love him and I want a divorce but he threatens to do something if I do get a divorce....even my family would disown me for this and they would look for me too.I dont trust any of them.
2007-02-03 07:58:52 · update #1
just cover your tracks......travel under an assumed identity....unless they get a detective after you, how would they find you? Make sure you pick a name completely unrelated to any of them, something they would never think of.....and good for you for getting out......
are you running from your husband's family or is that your family also?
2007-02-03 06:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of this situation today!!! Partners that sound this violent will do anything to track you down, they look to see what you do online, who you call, and where you go!!! They can flip on you in a minute and that might be all it takes for a situation to become fatal. Take everyones advice, get to a womens shelter, they HAVE the answers you need, iwould even recommend taking a bus to another states shelter if you can and move on from there. Look some up on the interent and got down to grey hound and buy a ticket with cash. NEVER use checks or debit cards during this fragile time. I really hope you go and know that this situation you are in will only get worse, becareful who you trust too! God bless you! Do it TODAY!
2007-02-03 14:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel your life is threatened, you need to find a women's shelter, they will give you the protection you need. Do this now, don't stay at home, don't stay in an abusive situation, you can get the help you need. There are people in those shelters who work with women all the time who are running away from abusive relationships. They know what to do, and how to help you out of a very bad situation. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-03 14:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a good friend who works with Abused women and she has told me if you need to get out-GET OUT!! Changing your name and your identity is one of the things you can do. Make sure you change your appearance too. Take some protection classes. I hope these help you.
2007-02-03 14:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by sweet2bred1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u need to get out as fast as u can
id really start by getting a restraining order against him and working toward divorce show evidence of abuse and get yo *** to a womens shelter ...........
u dont want to disappear u want him to !
call the police if he threatens u and make sure u move out wiht all yo ****
and id get sum mace or a taser and carry it with me at all times
be save honey and watch out
oh and pls be smart
2007-02-03 14:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by leandrasmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like domestic case.
How about going to a shelter for help cause they have most of the answers you are looking for and you cant do it alone. So reach out to those trained for this type of situation. Good luck.
2007-02-03 14:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to a womens shelter immediately.....if he is that dangerous leave now. get out, hotel until you can go further, get a different car, never use your real name, just go and run.....it sounds funny..but, i know.............and for Gods sake never let him talk you into coming back. i will pray for you
2007-02-03 14:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by dawnlovesbob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will get an apartment for you and feed you. And protect you.
2007-02-03 14:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by piratepete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋