will ive been with this guy for a couple of months nd we decided to have sex..i am 14 nd he is 15 nd we have protected sex but this time the condom slipped off nd now i am 15 weeks pregnant nd i beginiing to show more nd more and i can only hide it for so long but i dont how to tell my parents..my boyfriend is here for me and is encouraging me to tell..we already told his parents and they were mad but are going to help us get through this..so anybody have ideas nd advicde on how to tell..pleaz i would appreciate it greatly..
2007-02-03 06:27:29 · 34 answers · asked by loveNn him 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
thank everbody that left answers and i am going to tell my parents at 4:00pm 2/4/06..with my boyfriend and his parebts at my side..!
well thanks again and i am finallyy ready and i am going to keep the baby and
continue school and take full responibility and also take care of myself,boyfriend and our unborn child..!
2007-02-04 06:45:28 · update #1
u should tell youre parents now...dont wait longer!
2007-02-03 06:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Ainmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what age you are and no matter who you tell you need to talk to somebody. Trust me I know. The longer you bottle it up the more you will be thinking these thoughts until god forbid you actually try to go through with it. Hun... I have been in the worst situations you can imagine and thought the same things, so don't think its not normal. I am so glad now that I have moved on past it, and that I did not give into weakness. I can't imagine what devastation I would have cause the people I was close to... If you want to talk to your parents I think this would defintely cause them too pay attention. If not they are total morons, and you should find someone else to talk to, perhaps a guidance counselor at your school? Just realize hun that you create every day of your life, and any situation you feel is dragging you down is up to you to change. Love life sugar, it gets better when its unexpected, and just sometimes it has to be a struggle to really enjoy the outcome in the end.
2016-05-23 23:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His parents are eventually going to have to know your parents because if you have and keep the baby, they are going to share grandparenting responsibilities. You may have a rough time getting up the courage to tell your parents but I think you are waiting because you hope something will occur to you or you will think of something or someone else will think of something to make the telling easier. It's just not likely to happen that way so tell them immediately because in any situation, you are going to have face them. Just do it, it's a consequence and there are much harder tasks ahead for you if you become a parent yourself.
You say your boyfriend is there for you and so are his parents. His parents have a much better idea of what is ahead. If need be, ask his mother please to be with you when you speak to your mother. And speak immediately to your mother; do not delay another second. There a lot of people involved now because they have the knowledge of what has happened - don't exclude your mother and father from that group.
God bless. This is a difficult situation.
2007-02-03 06:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave a note for them then go to school so they have the day to think about it, when my dad found out my mom was pregnant they were young and he left a note saying "dear mom and dad Hopes pregnant i am off to school, Steve." they had time to think about it that way. But you should tell them soon so you can start buying the things you need for your baby and you should have your mom in the room when you have it, it helps to relieve the stress off of daddy to be some what. And maybe to make them feel better name the baby after one of them like a middle name or something, my dads name is Steven I named my son Conner Steven he was so happy but I am 21 and married your parents will be happy eventually good luck.
2007-02-03 06:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by sexy mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you nad you boyfriend need to talk to your parents. At this point considering your age it would be better to tell them. you're going to get in trouble, and there is no doubt about it but you decided to do something that could bring a child into the world and you need to own up to it. The sooner you do i the better your chances are of getting proper medical attention. Show your mother that you need help, you've made a mistake and you are in trouble. Anger is the first reaction to a situation like that but it will subside. Be brave and tell them. i dont know your past but you owe them that,
2007-02-03 06:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by T M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing, you must be a bit scared about it all. You have to tell your parents and the longer you leave it, the harder it will be. They will be there to help you, but they might be a bit cross to start with. You must be brave and get it out in the open.
Just think - in a couple of years' time, you will look back on it all and realise you were glad you told them when you did.
Good luck!
2007-02-03 06:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by the_emrod 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were 15, trust me it's hard. I sat there and cried while he told my parents. For sure do it together. Let them know what you 2 have as a plan, you know, if you both still want to finish school, if he's going to get a job, things like that. It will be very hard on your parents to take, and it will probably take a while for them to stop being upset with you. But just remember they love you and you are their "little girl" so it is going to shock them.
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2007-02-03 06:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by Happy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not get an abortion
okay my father is an OB/GYN and I know and I have spoken to a lot of girls in your position that haven't even spoken to their parents. I am thinking you have already been to a doctor, it might be easier to have your boyfriend speak to your parents while you sit down with them. Be ready for tears, and pain cuz you are about to go through h***. Hun, I know that was not comforting but it's true. I want you to know that you are taking on a lot of responsibility and it is not fair to your child to be put up for adoption. You need your parents. You can't get through this with your 15 year old boyfriend who has no idea what it is like to be pregnant. You need your mom, and dad. Not his.
I really hope everything works out for you, your boyfriend and your child.
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I am so sorry you have to deal with this.
2007-02-03 08:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good luck sweetie. Not only telling your parents, but with your future in general and with the decisions you now face. You need to tell your parents you need to speak to them. Basically, there's no easy way, just start out quite simply with "I am pregnant". They may be understandably upset, but they should also understand that being upset doesn't change it, and you need their support. No matter what you are their daughter, and you need to tell them immediately. The longer you wait the more difficult it will be. Good luck, again.
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2007-02-03 06:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully there is not an easy way to tell your parents. I would suggest though sitting them down and calmly telling them. Personally I would tell them and then give them some time to think about it and cool off, then most likely they are going to help you through it. After all your mom has been there, gave birth to you so she knows what you will go through. We all make mistakes and then we have to deal with them.
2007-02-03 06:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by dt_musicdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit them down and tell them you have something important to tell them. Make it seem all deep and serious. And then tell them you are pregnant.
2017-01-29 14:24:24 · answer #11 · answered by Bastille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋