My husband is having problems....?

Question

He is having a hard time getting hard but don't want to go to the doctor. What can we do? This been going on about a month. Please help!

And no I'm happy with my husband!

Thankyou all for really good answers. I will have to see him in the morning. Thanks all!!!

Answer 1

That happens with all men from time to time.
Sometimes medical reasons, sometimes stress, overworking, fatigue. Or even worrying over not
getting hard. Be very, very, understanding and
remind him that you love him anyway but it
could be something serious that needs checked out. Question: Does he still get hard-ons in his
sleep? If he does, his equipment is probably fine.
His dificulty will pass.

Answer 2

Many things, you want to be sure that it is not related to a medical condition. Do the post- it test, see source. If the post- it test works...that means that the post -its are of in the morning you know that it is not physical but emotional.../psychological. Think positive, avoid stress and take your time no pressure for both of you. Prosperon a natural remedy might help too. Keep courage.

Answer 3

Is he under stress or working too hard? Does he eat unhealthy foods or smoke heavily? Has the excitement gone out of your lovemaking? You might both need to take a look at these lifestyle issues and make adjustments where necessary. Failing that, why not see a doctor and discuss medical alternatives, such as viagra?

Answer 4

I say he should visit his doctor. Maybe see a urologist. There is nothing to be embarrassed about because now a days you see this talked about openly on television commercials, etc.

He wants to see the doctor to make sure that there are not any medical problems going on. It's best to rule out serious problems before trying to solve this on his own, particularly if it has been an ongoing problem for him.

As others have said, it could be a variety of reasons (stress, etc.), but I think it's best for him to have himself checked out.

Answer 5

This is psychological or physical or both.
Men are extremely effected by their emotions in spite of our apparentl ability to have sex anywhere anytime with anyone. Erections are our strength and our weakness!

Does he have a strong erection in the morning when he's waking up? Wake up before him and keep an "eye" on this. If he's got good morning wood then you're in great shape for a solution. That will tell you that the equipment is still fully functional.

Erection issues have become common discussions between doctors and between doctors and their patients, so your husband should talk with his MD about it. The MD should look for causes before saying that Viagra is the solution.

Fatigue and stress and distraction are huge erection killers, not to mention illness, so a complete holistic assessment is in order. You don't want to miss a hidden serious illness, so get him checked out.

Quality sleep, exercise, healthy diet, and a positive attitude with your support are the first steps toward a solution. Good luck.

Answer 6

Well you better tell him to go to a doctor before it turns into something a lot more serious like erectile dysfunction.

Good luck! ;-)

Maybe the "same old stuff" just isn't arousing him anymore...try a new approach

Answer 7

Sorry, if he was getting hard with no problems before this began, then he needs to go the doctor and get himself checked out. It might be physical or mental, that is where you need to concentrate your energy.

Answer 8

Viagra could be his answer if he hasn't got a medical problem. You shouldn't have to do without or just masturbate to keep from being horny. He needs to see the doctor your you and himself.

Answer 9

Well he needs to go because often times the cardiovascular system is connected to not getting erections.

Answer 10

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