I studied really hard for my school spelling bee, and I won. She didn't study as hard as me or my other friend, but she still got second place. And she REALLY wants to go to the second round, and she studies for it A LOT. And, since I wanted her to be happy, and I wanted more time with her, I promised her that I would fake that I was sick on the day of the Spelling Bee so that she could go if she got us more than 30 min. on the phone every day. But if I didn't go, my parents would be REALLY disappointed, and so would I. I'm going to tell my friend that the deal's off. Am I making the right decision?
2007-02-03 06:23:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you're already feeling guilty knowing that you wouldn't be doing your best. the only person right now you need to worry about is making yourself happy and doing the best that you can. It's not your fault that your fault that she didn't study as much or as well as she should have now she knows that she has to follow things through if she wants something bad enough that she has to work for it. Why punish yourself for something that you said you'd do and that you followed through with? GL in your choice.
2007-02-03 07:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your making the right decision. You seemed to really work hard for this, and you deserve it. She's your friend, you dont owe her anything, you won fair and square and if she gets mad, than apparently the spelling bee is more important to her than your guys's friendship, which if you look at it, isnt a very good friend at all. Good Luck and congrats on winning the spelling bee. But remember, do it for you, no one else!
2007-02-03 06:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by dmtv08052003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 05:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sld have never told her that u wld do that in the first place
u get me ?
do u really want to go or is it not a big deal to u cause if its not a big deal then let her go because who cares rite but her but if u wanted to go then u sldnt have told her that
its wrong to go back and say i changed my mind u made that descion honey so u have to stick with it
ur friend will prolly be super pissed if it turned out u gave her false hope in going
u made ur descion so it is really to late to change that
oh and id explain to ur parents what u did and that u plan on sticking with that desicon
2007-02-03 06:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by leandrasmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question here and yes you should go cause we all need to be loosers sometimes and you win and she didnt well she has to be ok with that and be happy for you as her friend we win some we loose some so good luck and hope you win
2007-02-03 06:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry hun you are not doing the right thing just because she is your friend or what ever you should noty through the competion you should go
2007-02-03 06:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do what you want to do and if this person is a true friend she would understand.so what I'm saying is do what you want to do not what she wants you to do.
2007-02-03 06:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by chicka loca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are..good luck
2007-02-03 06:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by ~ Helin ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋