How many of you feel that you'd be better off if you were straight and hate yourself for not being 'normal' so to speak (believe me there's nothing abnormal about being gay and nothing normal abut being straight)
2007-02-03 06:15:52 · 13 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't resent being a homosexual, I resent the people that try to make me feel like I am a lower form of human being because I am not heterosexual.
2007-02-03 06:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I want to be straight forward with you. Homosexuality is constructed. Often innoscently by many children. Children forget the experiances they had as small children. They still construct themselves from those experiances.
First understand homosexualality is constructed, just like hetrosexuality is constructed.
The Formula For Constructing A Homosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way: A Predisposition
Toward Homosexuality Plus That First Homosexual Experience
Multiplied By Pleasurable and Positive Homosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added More Homosexual Experiences Multiplied By More Pleasurable Thoughts Constructs A Homosexual.
The Formula For constructing A Hetrosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way: A Predisposition
Toward hetrosexuality Plus That First Hetrosexual Experience
Multiplied By Pleasurable and Positive Hetrosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added More Hetrosexual Experiences Multiplied By
More Pleasurable Thoughts Constructs A Hetrosexual
Once you see that this is how it happened and really understand it, it becomes your choice to work with it. I was 40 before i understood this. I was homosexual scince i could remember. Then I prayed and the memmory of when i first experianced homosexuality came to me, and I could understand how it was constructed.
It would be hard to understand this if you can not remember your first experiance, but you could still understand this.
A coulpe of good sights for you to read if you want help overcoming the homosexuality in you. First I want to say, it could take years or it could take less time, everyone is different. Check out the sights below, they may help.
http://www.ilovejesus.com/befree/pnartic...
http://www.ccel.org/contrib/exec_outline...
I would like to say the christian prospective does not talk about gender nonconformity. It can be a predisposition to homosexuality. Not all children that had a gender nonconformity will construct homosexuality. so it is not the leading or only predisposition to homosexuality. Expermenting, being drawn into expermenting all usually are the predisposition, even name calling can be part of the predispositioning to constructing homosexuality. Not all children that construct homosexuality have gender nonconformity.
As i say it is often innoscently constructed, then as an adult we learn it was not the plan of God. God we know planned us to construct hetrosexuality, but our choices may lead us in another direction for God to use in our plan That he has for us. Everything is the power of god.
Let me leave you with this in mind:
"AND SUCH WERE SOME OF YOU. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God." (1 Co 6:11)
Learning to seek God, and walking by the Spirit of God is what I am doing now, and there is no shame, just learning.
2007-02-03 19:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont resent being homosexual, but I resent some of the things that come with being homosexual, namely homophobia
2007-02-03 23:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, I don't resent it. now that I've gotten older, and I'm not a scared, closeted teen anymore. I'm out to my family, friends and coworkers, who accept me for who I am. the ones who aren't "normal" are the ignorant hypocrites who post their hateful garbage on these pages and still protest against us being treated like equal citizens (i.e. Prez Dubya trying to amend the constitution with legalized discrimination....this loser needs to be impeached for this among all his other foul-ups!)
2007-02-03 06:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Resent? by all means yes before but not anymore. Thank Goodness.
2007-02-03 15:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an similar ingredient might want to be pronounced for the time period "instantly" being utilized to heterosexuals.If hetero=instantly,then the alternative may recommend gay=crooked or bent.I favor the time period gay over all others because it really is what i'm.And as a gay i'm "gay" interior the chuffed experience of the note because it develop into meant.Being a third celebration to calling someone chuffed easily isnt incorrect and admittedly I dont comprehend your disconcert.what's an insult in my view is the heterosexual those who can no longer seem to keep their noses out of gay affairs.chuffed affairs!we are happy with who we are.So the position is the difficulty?Why do human beings examine with heterosexuals as instantly?you probably did not take care of the inverse of your interpretation of who precisely has the topics.it isn't a subject matter for each human being to have their respective evaluations about it.yet in case you'll take care of one side of the proverbial coin,then fairness mandates you note the pick to redress your own topics as well.once you element a finger at someone,you've 3 extra pointing lower back at you through an similar hand.you're not to any extent further misinterpreting some thing.you're only watching it from a biased perspective.imagine about each and each and every of the stereotypical names we as a society use each day.like the time period "fat" for overweight human beings.each and every human interior the international has fat,so how is the time period fat certain?And why do you imagine overweight human beings take offense to it?Come on Dude,loosen up and seem at each and each and every of the injustices in this previous international with equality.The "gay" ingredient got here about an similar way the "instantly" ingredient got here about.the pick for labels and catagorization to set up our variety of distinctive issues in existence.have you ever heard the time period Cowboy,or Yankee,or Pollock?some take offense to those words too.yet you comprehend what,I dont loose sleep over it.and that i actually received't use those words if it offends someone and that i will't flow asking them to settle for it only because there is yet another intending to the time period they do like.no human being has "jacked" some thing except everyones properly to do as they please.sturdy question!
2016-11-24 21:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by chamberland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I simply resent the way some people inflict their narrowminded stupidity on me.
2007-02-03 06:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by castle h 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to exploring the sea of love, I prefer buoys.
~Andrew G. Dehel
2007-02-03 06:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would I spend my life resenting what I am?
2007-02-03 06:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like who and what I am. It took me a while to come to this conclusion though. Now, though, I'm happy.
2007-02-03 06:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋