Let me start by saying this is not normally something I would do but am seriously considering. The last week or so my best friend and I have gotten way closer. We are about ready to take it to the next level. The problem is I have a boyfriend that I love dearly but I have had feelings for the friend for a very long time that I let go because we were both in a relationship. So I guess what I am asking is should we go ahead or let things go?
2007-02-03 06:13:34 · 6 answers · asked by Hazeleyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know if this will help anyone with any suggestions but the guy that I am referring to also is in a relationship where the girl just thinks about herself. Mine doesn't always put my needs first. He is loving at times but when he gets stressed or just wants to get out he goes and drinks and leaves me home to deal with everything. And I know this is not a pity party for me I am just trying to make things clear for everyone so I may get some good advice.
2007-02-03 16:48:55 · update #1
ok this is a tough question and one only you can make you need to decide which one you like better and who you can see yourself with but whatever you do dont cheat if you end up feeling like the friend is best for you then tell your bf and be honest you will know if you are making the right choice because your heart already knows who it wants to be with good luck
2007-02-03 06:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are gonna go with this other guy thats fine but let the guy whose in your life now go first dont cheat on him and hurt him so your happy but remember friends who date and may break up will never get back the friend ship they once had dating a friend changes everything good luck with what ever you do
2007-02-03 14:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Sometimes having a friendship first makes the relationship awesome. But then again if it doesn't work it can also crush a friendship. Follow your judgement.
2007-02-03 14:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfirend already and you care alot about him, I would let the affair go. you don't want to hurt your boyfriend, and Im pretty sure you wouldn't want him to cheat on you. put yourself in your boyfriend place how would you feel. good luck.
2007-02-03 14:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start cheating...
If you want to give the new guy a try, you
must break-up with b/f first...
2007-02-03 14:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who said you cant have two at a time?
2007-02-03 14:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by superman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋