Ok I've been in college for 4 years and now this is my senior year however me and this girl have gotten really close ..we eat together sleep together basicly we do everything together.. any way one night we were laying down and I told her I didnt have a problem with kissing girls.. I never actually kissed one before but I am attracted to her.. Ive always been with men though. anyway one night we kinda just kissed while we were laying down this kiss was serious! anyway it became a habit we started kissing eachother on a regular which lead to touching eachother and I got really caught up with her..now things are different were not as close as we used to be because we go to different colleges our last year of school so we kinda dont speak anymore but I still think about her allll the time does this mean im gay or i have bisexual tendencies?
2007-02-03 06:13:22 · 13 answers · asked by uptodateballer 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If your still attracted to men and women then your bi, but if your only into women then your a lesbian.
2007-02-03 06:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by Đarah 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having a gay thought does not mean your are gay. You could have 1000 gay thoughts a day and still have physical feelings for a woman.
2016-05-23 23:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian, and I think that you are def bisexual, but if you are no longer attracted to men, then you are a lesbian. I would call her up, and see if you two could get together soon, tell her you think about her a lot, see what she has to say. It's really not a big deal being bi or being a lesbian. I def think your bi though.
Good luck though!
2007-02-03 07:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, First, does she ever think of you? If you cant stop thinking about her, what cant you stop? Just thew general thought of her or the sexual nature the relationship was getting? If its just the memories of her, then you miss your friend who on some level you fell in love with. If you think about the kissing and the touching, you miss the intamacy, the stomach flipping, heart thumping, and the girl that made you weak in the knees
2007-02-07 05:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by corleone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do we need to worry about labelling people too much? gay, straight, bi, whatever! who cares?! it sounds like you had a loving relationship with your friend, and that is a beautiful thing. You'll know your feelings the next time you meet someone you want to get close to. The most important thing is to recognize your feelings and not to deny them, then you will have a happy life :-)
2007-02-04 08:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Zag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't mean you are gay, it simply means you care about someone of the same sex. The question you have to ask yourself is; am I sexually attracted to women more then men? then be honest to yourself and search your soul for that answer.
2007-02-03 06:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by Michael R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You do at the very least, have bisexual tendencies.
2007-02-03 09:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our passions are the winds that propel our vessel. Our reason is the pilot that steers her. Without winds the vessel would not move and without a pilot she would be lost.
Author: Proverb
2007-02-03 06:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately bisexual, assuming that you're still interested in guys. If not, then you're a lesbian.
2007-02-03 19:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet...but you're right onthe border. You need Jesus in your life, that's what's missing. It's a fad honey. It's not normal and it's not something to be proud of.
ere's a litmus test for you. Tell your family this Christams what you're doing with this other girl and watch the shame and heartbreak that overcomes them. Then remember that feeling of shame you felt deep within yourself.
2007-02-03 06:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by huckleberry 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋