Help? Anyone?

Question

I don't know if I'm in the right board for this,but...

Okay,um,this guy that I have been talking to over the i-net for about over a month now,showed me his picture the other day...and i gave him an 8 on a scale from 1-10. and i showed him my picture and he gave me a 5 (but i think it was mostly because in the pic it looked like i was overweight. When i'm really not. I hope that was all it was)

Well,anyway, the only reason why i gave him an 8 was because i only took one look at his picture because i was in a rush to do something (and he really wanted an answer)

I really thought he was an 8...But until last night.. i then took another look at his picture and studied it long, and hard...and to tell you the honest truth, his face really frightened me. I've never seen anyone so....creepy :(
I'm not trying to be mean. I don't want to be mean. But its what I think and I can't help what I think.
But hes extremely sweet,and not even his looks can stop me from talking to him.
But I'm afraid if i'll tell him, he will take it the wrong way. I'm scared i'll hurt his feelings.He would say I lied ( I have lied to him about one particular incident, and i said i was sorry) and he will never talk to me again, and i really like him. But he wanted to really know what i thought, and i'm giving him my honest opinion.

Do you consider what I did was a lie?? If i took a quick look at his picture and gave him an 8 from what i saw because i really didn't have time to take a good glance at it??

Or do u think i should have told him "I really don't have time to look at your picture, so I'll look at it later and tell you"

Thank you

Answer 1

Whats done is done.
If you try tocorrect it now,
he may think it's because he gave you a 5.

Answer 2

It's wise and safest when we're honest. But, when what we're about to say or do can affect the self-image of another, we need to excercise caution and chose our words, carefully. Some things are better left unspoken. I'm sure you can find a way around this "rate system," by evading the question with accentuating the positive, which will benefit you both and the friendship. I would be certain to sincerely compliment his admirable qualities and personality that attracted you in the first place. I'd also be upfront in making certain he knows where you stand with him, emotionally. His asking your opinion of his pic could be an indication of a romantic spark he's trying to ignite. So, if you're not interested in any thing more serious than a friendship, then now's the time to make yourself understood. Whether or not he'll appreciate your gentle honesty, remains to be seen. At least you'll have a clear conscience for being honest with yourself!
Good Luck!!

Answer 3

Hi I Luv, If just looking at his picture,makes your feel creepy,and uncomfortable,i think you should take a real look at this relationship,and maybe back off before you get into something over your head.Meeting guys or girls on the internet,can be a trap for people without expedience. Go with how his picture made you feel,and do the right thing,for yourself. Please be careful when on the internet. A Friend.

Clowmy

Answer 4

let it be ......dont think so much leave it