I am now 40 years old man. and i have not married till now.
Can i married now...or is it too late for me to married now, and i should not marrid anymore in my life ?
If i married now then will my married life become successful in sex ?
Please don't joking, give me some good advice so i can take some dicicion in m life.
Expreence people please advice me. Thank you.
2007-02-03 05:23:16 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
More and more people are getting married much later in life. No reason it shouldn't work out.
2007-02-03 05:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Gaspode 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm sure you're not the first forty-year-old man to not have married yet. Maybe you will, or maybe you're not the type to. Do you value your alone time? Or would you welcome someone to share it with you? Marriage is a huge commitment, 50/50 on everything, so it would be a tremendous change for you. Only you can decide if you want it or not. As for sex, I would hold off worrying, and get into a relationship first. Give it a lot of time to get to know each other. If it's right for you, I think the sex will come naturally. I'd advise you to stop worrying so much and pray to God. He will give you the answers.
2007-02-03 05:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Age has nothing to do with sex and there are innumerable examples of successful sex life and successful married life - getting married at the age of 40 or 45. It is all in the mind.
2007-02-03 05:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Marks 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't have experience But I will tell 40 age doesn't matter If you ahven't get marry is nothing worry about it...I am a 36 snd I really don't never think about geting marry...Hey! Life is more then just having a husban...And sex the more you worry about it the worse you will feel and then you won't be successful...All have to do, beenwith the right person and having confidence on yourself...Got it love life isn't?
2007-02-03 05:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can very well marry now. But see that there is no much age difference between you both. Because you should get only a understanding partner for the rest of your life whiche can be given by only your age group. Sex will not be a problem if your spouse is in your age group. You can enjoy til your life time. But do not get a child. If you want a child, you can adopt in a age group of 6 -8 with your wife's concern. Because at your age of retirement the child will be major and your responsibility will be less.
2007-02-03 05:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sankaranamasivayam K 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are never to old to marry someone, as long as you are doing it becuase you love her. If you are getting married just becuase you don't want to be alone, that's the wrong reason.
Sex is not the reason to marry, but it is a vital part in a successfull relationship. Many men have enjoyable sex up into there 60's, so, unless there is a medical problem, you should be happy with the sex.
2007-02-03 05:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no set age to get married or not. You need to put yourself out there and you will find someone to marry!!! THink positive and it will happen. As long as you communicate with your wife or significant other your sex life can be very successful. you have to talk and be comfortable with each other. Don't let lack of communication make it not the greatest thing in your life. Remember it isn't always about sex either..Its about your bond and commitment and your love for each other!!
2007-02-03 05:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by jen 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You make no mention of a specific woman you're in love with... and that's a very BIG part of a successful marriage, sex life,etc. It sounds like you're more concerned with simply being married, regardless of to whom.
In which case, I'd say no, marrid for you is not a good idea.
2007-02-03 05:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Marriage has nothing to do with age. Anyone can marry whenever he/she feels like to. After all marriage is a legal & social obligation that gives you rights & responsibilities to share with your spouse & beget children who are recognized by law & society as legitimate. As far sexuality is concerned age of 40 is not so old for you not to lead a satisfied sexual life. My own friend who was 47 years at the time got married & is very happy after 3years of his marriage, fully satisfied sexually too. So you can proceed & get married without any second thought.
2007-02-03 16:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for just cause you are 40 has nothin to do w/ it people get married even in 80s 2 my husband & I are 40 & 41& we still have a great sex life even after 20 yrs. so good luck & can always find true love dont worry!!!
2007-02-03 11:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have still not crossed the age when you shouldn't be able to marry anymore. I would advise you to find a woman of your age or at least similar maturity level for better compatibility. There should be no problem in sex at this age. Regarding having children, I would advise you to adopt a child rather than having one of your own at this age. It is both generous and as satisfying as having children of one's own.
2007-02-03 21:07:44 · answer #11 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋