I hear this a lot from other women “my husband wasn’t the best in bed that I ever had but I let him think he is”. Why do you guys say that? If he wasn’t the best, why didn’t you marry the guy that was the best? It seems that every woman I talk to says my husband wasn’t the best even though I tell him that. Why do women do that? As for us guys we could do the same thing but we don’t. We marry the women that are the best in bed.
2007-02-03 05:23:01 · 10 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cause for woman it's not about who is the best in bed it's about the total package.
2007-02-03 05:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men an women are differnt and not too many women who are married have tested the waters as guys do. They probably will not be married if they did.
Women do not consider the exact sexual act as lvoe making: there are other things through out the day that start it for women.
Mate selection is not based on the bedroom, because a house has many other rooms that need to be filled.
Additionally, many women stay quiet because the truth would be too devastating.
2007-02-03 13:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I would have married the person that was "the best in bed" I would have had a great sex life, but a broken heart.
He was a lying, cheating, sociopathic person.
You marry for other reasons than someone's performance in bed. When I met my husband, he was adequate, with a major intrest in .. "learning".
And I love to teach ;)
Now, he knows my body better than I do I think!!!
If you are going around with the notion that you're going to marry the woman that is the "best in bed"... your in for a sad marriage.
2007-02-03 14:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Alaskan Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women, believe it or not, need emotional stability more then sex. Not alot, but a woman having her emotional needs met, its just as important as sex.
My husband is wonderful in bed..If he werent or if he needed to change some things, or the way he did some things, I would tell him, and we would work on it together...Part of why the sex is so good, is because he meets all my needs emotionally also...
Women base sex on emotions...I know its weird..but its true.
But honestly, he still knocks my socks off every time, and we have been together for 11 years!!
2007-02-03 13:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by ~Annette~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the person who satisfies you is not the best person to spend your life with.
You have to eventually get out of bed.
It's easier to show a person what you need than to be with a jerk who happens to satisfy you in bed.
I think that's why a lot of women make big mistakes when choosing a spouse or mate.
2007-02-03 13:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...it is because I am able to truly trust him and I can let my guard down. I can only speak on a personal level...but I NEVER actually climaxed until I was engaged to my husband. I guess I needed the comfort of commitment.
2007-02-03 13:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my husband for four years. He satifies me in bed, only because I love him deeply. Its not about their performance, its about the emotional part of the relationship. If there is love, then that partner will satisfy you.
2007-02-03 13:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by blommasbrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been married for 2 years, and no he does not but i can't tell him 'cause then he will start worrying and we will have problems. so what i do . i watch XXX movies with him and i tell him i he would like to try what they are doing. is getting better
2007-02-03 13:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my husband sure does... He is enough man and husband for me:)
2007-02-03 13:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
2007-02-03 13:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by snafudotcom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋