I asked a girl to our valentines dance a few days ago. I'm in 9th grade, and she's in 10th. She's really nice, but when I asked her, she said that she would have to think about it. I talked to her this morning, and she said no, because "She had a bad experience at the valentine's dance last year". Is she just saying that to spare my feelings or is she telling the truth? I'm so confused.
2007-02-03 05:16:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Whatever the reason the answer is no, move on!
2007-02-03 05:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree with the first response. She doesn't want to, for whatever reason, and that's fine. It's her right to say no, and if she has to be vague or make stuff up or whatever, that's ok too.
Give her the space she's asking for. It will be better for her, and you can spare yourself the blow to your ego by pushing the issue.
You know, being confused is really part of life in general, and extends far beyond relationships and love and whatever else. So, I wouldn't stress it too much. You can be confused about things and not have to have answers right this very second. Maybe mystery in the world is a good thing, eh? So, acknowledge that it stings some, that you're confused, and shove on. It'll be all aces sometimes. Other times, not so much.
2007-02-03 13:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by SnowFlats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably did have a bad experience and that is proabably why to she had to think about i'm sure she didn't mean to hurt you're feelings or leave you questions.but really bad things happen at some of those dances i know from experienceses. i'm not going to our valentines day dance this year. because i went last year as well and my experience... well lets just say i watched my friend dance with a guy and i was waiting for someone to ask me i don't want it to end up the same way this year. i'm sure that she is just trying to protect herself but don't think you still cannoth get someone to go with i'm sure there is a girl out there for you possible one who already likes you .
2007-02-03 15:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you'd do anything to make her experience better this year, and ask her what you can do to make it better than last year. (and if she's just trying to spare your feelings, you'll probably find out at this point, because she'll have to make some other excuse). Good luck!
2007-02-03 13:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you buddy, ive been there, done that. there is about a 99% chance that she is just trying to spare your feelings. try to back off now and slow down. because if you keep pushing to hang out and stuff she is just going to keep making excuses like the one she just told you. but dont give up, good luck buddy!
2007-02-03 13:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her. That would show that you care about what she feels and it could help start a relationship. Only she knows for sure.
2007-02-03 13:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could really be telling the truth.......or playing hard to get.
Keep trying & Best Wishes!!!! :-)
2007-02-03 13:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be telling the truth but you should tell her watever happen last year is last year and you should forget about it
2007-02-03 13:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by misscutie8194 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋