what to do about child support and lawyer not helping?

Question

MY DAUGHTER IS NINE YEARS OLD AND HER BIRTH FATHER HAS SHOWED NO INTEREST IN HER SINCE THE DIVORCE IN 2001 AND EVEN BEFORE. HE HAS COURT ORDERS TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT BUT HE ONLY PAYS WHEN HE HAS THE MONEY TAKEN FROM HIS PAY WHEN HE WORKS. HE IS TWELEVE THOUSAND BEHIND SO FAR..AND AGAIN HE HAS A NEW JOB THAT I HAD TO REPORT BECAUSE WILL NOT DO SO...WE GO TO COURT BECAUSE NOW THAT I HAVE REMARRIED HE WANTS TO SEE HER. THE JUDGE RULED 4HRS OF SUPERVISED VISITS EACH WEEK. EVEN THOUGH HE DOESNT PAY HIS SUPPORT AND CARRING INSURANCE FOR HER OR CALLING HER OR SENDING HER GIFTS ON HOLIDAYS OR BIRTHDAYS NOTHING....WHAT SHOULD I DO ? MY LAWYER SEEMS TO BEWORKING AGAINST ME. HE DOES DRUGS AND PASSES THEM BY BUYING URINE AND PUTTING IT IN BALLONS TO PASS THE SCREENINGS TO GET VISITATION TO SHE HER ON HIS OWN..THIS WAS TOLD TO US BY A WITNESS WHO SAYS HE BRAGGS ABOUT THIS AND HOW HE IS FOOLING EVERYONE...WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Answer 1

you dont need a lawyer, you need a new approach.

1) Write a letter; in it give your contact info, case number, arrears amount, ex's info and the problem.ask them what they are going to do about it.

Fax it (NOT MAIL, NOT PHONE CALLS) to the following:
(just call their office's and ask for the fax number)

1) attorney generals of both states (if there are two states)
2) governors of both states
3) CS offices of both states
4) the Regional FEDERAL Child Support Office (of both states-link is below).

Phone calls do nothing; they ignore them, deny them, etc.... and lawyers will just tell you what you want to hear... and suk ya dry at the same time.

FAXing this one letter, to ALL of the listed proves you sent it, as well as they recieved it. the squeeky wheel gets the oil if ya know what i mean. so if you hear nothing, fax it again, once a week if need be. they will eventually understand that you will not go away quietly.

if worse comes to worse, contact supportkids.com. they charge a 30% fee of what they are able to recover, but it beats nothing.

some links to help. some you may need to click on your state and find the section you need. the federal regional office link is below (just find it) and some links are to help you.


http://www.backgroundcheckgateway.com/directories.html
http://www.yellowbook.com/

http://www.petitionspot.com/petitions/collectchildsupport

http://www.aclu.org/womensrights/violence/23929res20060125.html
http://www.womenslaw.org/
http://www.nwlc.org/
http://www.womenslawproject.org/
http://www.nwwlc.org/
http://www.women-law.org/
http://www.hg.org/women.html
http://www.law.com/jsp/nj/specials.jsp?p=contact
http://law-library.rutgers.edu/ilg/njlaw.php
http://www.aclu.org/womensrights/index.html
http://www.hud.gov/offices/pih/programs/hcv/about/fact_sheet.cfm
http://www.hud.gov/offices/pih/programs/hcv/forms/index.cfm
http://www.hud.gov/offices/pih/pha/contacts/
http://www.singlemoms.org/info/main.htm
http://www.singlemotherresources.com/
http://www.angelfire.com/nj4/njcomputerchick
http://www.parentswithoutpartners.org/chapterfind.asp
http://www.mowaa.org/
http://modestneeds.org/
http://freecycle.org/
http://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/www_usn.nsf
http://www.redcross.org/where/chapts.asp

POST HIS DEADBEAT FACE ON THESE
http://www.wantedposters.com/deadbeats_usa_a_to_f.htm
http://www.deadbeatjustice.com/list.htm

http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/states.htm
http://www.divorcehq.com/spprtgroups.html

http://www.divorceinfo.com/statebystate.htm
http://www.divorcenet.com/states
http://www.divorcesource.com/
http://www.divorcecentral.com/
http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/calculators.htm
http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/child-support-calculators.html
http://family.findlaw.com/
http://www.divorcehq.com/deadbeat.html
http://www.divorceinfo.com/
http://www.divorceinanutshell.com/
http://www.lawchek.com/Library1/_books/domestic/qanda/childsupp.htm
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-laws/state-child-/
http://www.supportguidelines.com/resources.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/articles/news.html
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-basics/

http://www.ncsea.org/
http://www.nfja.org/index.shtml

FACTS AND REGIONAL FEDERAL CS OFFICE INFO
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/opa/fact_sheets/cse_factsheet.html
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/passport.htm
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/fop.htm
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/faq/faq.htm
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/oro/regions/acf_regions.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/extinf.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/grants/grants_cse.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/index.html
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/region2/index.html
http://www.govbenefits.gov/govbenefits_en.portal
http://www.fedstats.gov/qf/
http://www.fedworld.gov/gov-links.html

FIND YOUR STATE REPS
http://www.usa.gov/

COLLECTORS
http://www.supportkids.com/

TAX INFO
http://www.taxsites.com/index.htm
http://www.divorceinfo.com/taxes.htm
http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc422.html
http://www.irs.gov/faqs/faq4-5.html
http://www.irs.gov/localcontacts/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/advocate/index.html
http://www.fms.treas.gov/faq/offsets_childsupport.html
http://www.supportcollectors.com/faq.php

SEX OFFENDERS
http://www.mapsexoffenders.com/
http://www.scanusa.com/
http://www.nsopr.gov/
http://www.familywatchdog.us/Default.asp

Answer 2

You need to talk to this "Witness" about testifying as to what he has told you. If you go to court and tell the judge that this witness told you that he was doing drugs he will not allow it because it is 2nd hand info. You need to also see about getting his rights terminated. Is your new husband at all interested in adopting your daughter? If so this is the only way to get him off your back.

Answer 3

Get another lawyer.

Answer 4

another laweyer good luck