Help me!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

Okay I'm in the 6th grade and my bra size is a 32B and alot of people say I stuff my bra which i dont and its stating to hurt my feelings. And I'm starting to think that the only reason y my boyfriend likess me what should I do

Answer 1

Honey, don't feel bad, I'm in 8th grade, and 14 years old, and I have a 36 D. yes, D. And yes, I have also been told I stuff my bra, and it's just annoying. Ignore them. YOU know they're real, and at your age they don't need to know the contents of your bra ANYWAYS. And if you think your boyfriend only likes you because of those DUMP HIM HE'S NOT WORTH ANYTHING TO YOU. I've had boyfriends like that, and you can tell if you catch them talking about them to his friends, or catch him looking at them TOO MUCH. Yes, guys are SUPPOSED to look, but not at your age, and not so much it makes you feel uncomfortable. Good Luck with everything girlie!! ^_^

Answer 2

Wow, I'm in the same grade you are with the same bra size. What are the chances...?

Anyways, you shouldn't be too worried about people making fun of you. Some people go through puberty earlier than others do and everyone changes differently. I happen to be an "early bloomer" and I was teased a lot. But I eventually got used to it and now look: those same people are going through puberty now. Haha.

As for your boyfriend, how can you prove that it's the only reason why your boyfriend likes you? He can like you for your personality too you know. If it is the only reason why he likes you, then he's probably not the greatest guy for you. Besides, 6th grade is still a little young to be thinking about boyfriends (says the 7th graders at my school) I hope that wasn't too offensive :(

Good luck finding the answer to your problem!

Answer 3

Wow, Brianna, I am so sorry to hear about you being teased, unfortunately, breasts, ****, boobs, whatever you want to call them not only come in different sizes they grow at different rates!!

I had the exact opposite problem!! I was FLAT- I MEAN FLAT AS A BOARD!! I really don't remember shedding tears over all the teasing I got, but I do remember just being teased over and over again, my dad actually got some pamphlets on Breast Implants, well lucky for me, my dad had taught me to laugh at myself, and well I do know another thing that will never change, and that is people tend to tease people that are usually popular and well they may not be popular, but they are usually well liked. The 2 main reasons that people tease someone are first the person being teased is usually a good sport, able to take it, of course there are the few where people are just mean. The second reason is just pure jealousy!! and I am sure that some of the girls that are teasing you are jealous because your body is taking on the shape of a woman, while there's probably still looks "boyish" and you said you had a boyfriend--that right there probably really has a lot of your classmates really jealous!!

So what do you do? Well, I am now a 40year old woman, and after 3 kids, I now have Boobs too, and I love them, and yes guys will look and like you for your Chest, that is just nature, you just make sure that you demand respect from them, the first thing 2 people generally know about one another is how they look, and that is what usually gets the attraction ball rolling, just remember no matter how good or bad someone looks, it really is what is on the inside, that counts!! Hay, you feel hurt that your boyfriend may only like you cuz of your chest, but why did you first start liking him? Probably cuz you thought he was cute!!

Anyway, my best friend all through grade school and junior high, well she was the first one to grow, and yea she had huge ones, and like you she too was teased, but both she and I learned to laugh first and have the best jokes about ourselves, If you are Laughing at yourself, will it really hurt to have someone else laugh? NOPE!! There was a T-shirt for us Flat Girls and it read like this"I am a member of the Itty Bitty Titty Committee!!" Well I was never allowed to own such a shirt, and that was Okay, I would just say it loud and proud before anyone else could say anything I would say, I AM THE PRESIDENT OF THE ITTY BITTY COMMITTEE!! Had a good guy friend tell me once, I was fun to tease because I actually came up with the best jokes about myself--so when you get a chance look up some big boob jokes on the net, and Monday at school just go wild!!!

Oh and one more thing!! I have seen so many beautiful girls like you, that became ashamed and would try and hide the bodies they were given, look I am not saying go and put on some tiny top or bikini, Just be Proud of who You are, and what You look like, always, always stand straight and tall!!

Have a Great Day!

Answer 4

If that is the reason that your boyfriend likes you is because you've got some big boobs, then he's a perverted freak. People shouldn't make fun of your bra size. I know it's hard (definately in 6th grade cause only a couple of girls have bigger boobs), BUT at least you've got one more year and then you won't stick out as much! If guys are making fun, just ignore them. Girls are just jealous. :))

Answer 5

For one thing- Lose the boyfriend. 6th grade is too soon to be tying yourself to a boy, and if the lad knows you're that young then he's taking advantage of you. You don't need that.

Ignore the other people: They've made it pretty clear that their minds are in ruts.

And talk to your mother, Sweetheart. She's probably had the same problems and can help you better than anyone else.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Ignore everyone. As long as you know it's not true, then it's all good. Why care what everyone is thinking about you? You developed early and other people are just jealous. And if you think that's the only reason your boyfriend likes you, ask him things that he likes about you. If he takes a long time and looks down at your chest a lot, then you know the real reason.

Answer 7

ok #1 girl if u think that your bf likes u cuzz of your chest dump his A.S.S
# 2 dont let the people @ skool get on your back there probally jelous that they dont have what youve got and mabe they stuff there bras dont let it bother u b proud that youve got what many people dont

and dump ypur bf later in life oull find the right guy you will love u for u not your boobs




good luck sweetie

Answer 8

do they say you stuff cause your bigger than them? well, they're just jealous! and some girls just grow faster than other! okay, these chicks told my sis she got implants, and she just flashed them in the bathroom to prove them wrong! lol! but don't do that! you could get in serious trouble! and if you think your bf likes you for only that, hes a dick! break up with his sorry @$$! good luck! =)


V Wong, your answer rocks!

Answer 9

Don't let other people words hurt you. Apparently they haven't realized that people grow at different ages and mature at different times. Just let it roll off your shoulder as they are acting immature and apparently do not value your friendship.

Answer 10

Tell them to mind there own business (they are probley jealous that theirs are not as big as yours) If you think that is the reason your boyfriend likes you break up with him