You see, I've always had this thing where I've never wanted a husband or kids. My plan is literally to finish sixth form and then figure out what want to do that day, then the day afer then the day after and so on. I've always wanted to travl and help people without ever feeling tied down to one place or person. I hate my life right no, I don't want to live like my mum and dad, My view is how can i possibly be blessed to live on this incredible planet but end up not getting the opertunity to see as much as I can. All my friends think that's good for a few years, but that'll eventually I'll realise what I'm missing and come back to start a family. So are they right? is it not possible for me to live the life I've dreamed of my entire life without falling into that wy of life? What's so great about having a famiy and a daily routine that makes everyone think that I will inevitably end up with it? I'm not trying to be closed minded so i really want to know, what is it like, is it worth it
2007-02-03 05:00:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Do you really want to know what it's like to have a "normal life"? For me, it's awsome, but that's because it's what I was ment to do.
For you, it sounds like your heart is full of adventure and there's nothing wrong with that!!
You are responsible for making yourself happy, so if you want to be single, travel, and make a life in many different cities, then I say go for it!!! There's a reason that you have this passion!
2007-02-03 05:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, do finish school, your spelling, grammar and punctuation need serious work.
The wonderful thing about a family is that it is only as ordinary as you choose. Find someone who wants to see the world and explore with you. Or go alone if that is your preference, but realize that at some point in life you may be VERY alone and need someone close. I have been married almost 50 years and still find something new in my relationships daily. It takes a certain bravery to give your heart to others and can be painful, but it can also be wonderful.
If you are sure that you don't want your parent's lives simply don't do things the way they did. Good luck!!
2007-02-03 05:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. What will make you happy and fulfilled is the only thing that will matter to you in the end. So if you start out doing what you think will make you happy and change your mind... so what? You change your mind and have a family. (Meeting the right person can do that!) If not, at the end of the day, you're the one that has to be satisfied with the life you've lived. Don't waste time with regret. Every choice you make will be a lesson you learn.
Best of luck.
2007-02-03 05:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has to make that decision for themselves, maybe the "normal" way of life is not normal for you! The house, kids and white picket fence with a dog in the yard is definitely not for everyone so don't think that you are wrong for not wanting those things. Maybe you are driven to do other things with your life that make it hard for you to consider having the type of life most of us have. I think you should do what makes you happy and fulfilled and if at some later time you decide you want the life that others have then you can always pursue that then. And yes, "normal " lives can be good too. Life is what you make it! Good luck!
2007-02-03 05:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by kittyupatree_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think "normal" exists. What seems completely normal to one may be totally nuts to another. If you are talking about the social norm, well, it's not for everyone. In my town I am considered odd b/c I am 23 with no kids and I'm not married/engaged. People think I'm even more nuts b/c I told them I don't know if I want kids at all. I feel that it takes trying a lot of things before you finally figure out what you want out of life. If you spend your whole life traveling and wandering from job to job it's okay as long as you learn something from every new experience.
2007-02-03 05:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, depending on your age and your education, you must be Abel to have a clear mind and make your choices, but remember the choices you make today, will effect your life forever.
I am married, 20 something years, I have kids, a white picket fence around my house, but I am miserable, I HATE being married, my life is so dysfunctional.. I wish I had finished school and had a clear mind, all I wanted is to get away from home ( very bad situation there)
just pray about it, and trust God will lead you the right way
2007-02-03 05:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by BubbleGumBoobs! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear you dont need a man or kids to to live a happy and fulfilled life.... I'm sorry your life is not going the way you want it to right now, do what what you know in your heart will make YOU happy cause it is afterall your life and you are the only that can make you happy
2007-02-03 05:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by ACV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean properly yea the kin could have a kin evening action picture or perchance a sport evening and if ur children play events then perchance the kin might want to attend a number of their video games and be suportive or maybe on the weekends the children might want to pick to gho and hang w/some friends and then the mothers and fathers might want to have their time I mean there is no longer incorrect or top thanks to stay ur existence and to address ur kin juss be particular that all people receives thrir time and no individual is harm and maximum of all that ur kin is satisfied sturdy success
2016-10-17 05:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should do what makes you feel right. Maybe one day, you will want a husband and kids. But let me tell you, husbands are not all that great! lol! Having kids is great but you can always adopt.
You can do whatever you want to do!
2007-02-03 05:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man what a long question....you definitely need to check out the singles and dating section....you'll find soul mates there..I promise.
2007-02-03 05:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by dj 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋