We've been sexually active for about 2 months now and we both took each others virginity. The thing is every single time we've had sex we always insert it really really slow till two inches and she always claims that it hurts her upon insertion then it starts to feel less painful as we continue. But I was just wondering if it hurts because maybe her hymen might still be unbroken, and it never bled the first time we did it.
2007-02-03 03:58:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It has been broken. Use some KY and a condom that will make it a little easier on her
2007-02-03 05:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by little lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is sufficiently aroused from you performing oral sex on her and especially if she has an orgasm, it will be more pleasurable for both of you. I am 41, have had 2 babies and if we just want to stick it in, it doesn't work fast. We must go slow at first. And by the way, no matter what the size of the penis, a woman's flesh can tear even after the hymen is gone and there can be a tiny amount of blood.
2007-02-03 04:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kiki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm I suppose it's possible, but so VERY unlikely. When you say continue, do you mean continue past the "two inches" or continue just keeping it back that far? Some women don't bleed, and it's also possible that it broke years ago during a physical activity or accident.
She'd need to see her gynecologist for a pelvic exam to know for certain. You aren't qualified enough to examine her yourself, and I'm not qualified enough to explain it online (neither is anyone else here, so don't let anyone else speculate...have her see her Doctor)
Bottom line here is that she is having pain so it needs to be checked out. The solution could be as simple as needing lubrication, but there could be various other issues that are causing pain.
Until it is sorted out you should be a gentleman and not pressure her for intercourse, as to pressure her under such circumstances just shows you don't care about her.
2007-02-03 04:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by cosper123 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you've been sexually active for 2 months, believe me it's broken. Not every girl bleeds the first time she has sex...
It will be painful the first couple of times, but it will get better. Try using lubrication gel. It makes the world of difference!!
2007-02-03 04:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are cases of women who've had insertive sex and gotten pregnant and when they go to the hospital they find her hymen is still intact.
If you have a narrow penis(small circumferance) it's entirely possible that you are just stretching it and not breaking it. Best thing to do is to get down there and look, you'll be able to see it if it's still intact. it's just a thin almost clear piece of skin, like thin scar tissue.
2007-02-03 04:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 27, I've been having sex for nine years and it still hurts sometimes. Get her really excited before you penetrate her otherwise it will hurt EVERY time. Also if you are larger it will hurt her but in a good way. She just needs to learn to enjoy that feeling.
P.S. I didn't bleed my first time either.
2007-02-03 04:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lexi Lexington 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she fully aroused every time? Are you using lube? Have you tried other positions? If the two of you know so little about how men's bodies and women's bodies and your own bodies work, should you be having sex?
2007-02-03 04:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she might not be wet enough, if a girl is really dry then it can be sore, play around more, more her *** and orgasm before you have intercourse. the 1st few times it does hurt and feels uncomfortable so enjoy it and try not to try the deep positions to start of with
2007-02-03 04:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by pinklinz@btinternet.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it hurts because her vaginal muscles are still very tight. if you can get it in at all beyond two inches i can gaurentee that her hymen is gone... and really it doent matter if you bleed or not its just skin and doesnt have to bleed when its broken but if she has ever used tampons before you guys had sex her hymen was robably gone anyways ! good luck
2007-02-03 04:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Lillian S. Phx Arizona 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it is still hurting there might be A problem, sex it not
suppose to hurt. She might need to see her doctor.
2007-02-03 04:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by koko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thanks to inform if a hymen continues to be intact is to flow to a well being care specialist, mainly a gynecologist. per chance you ought to attempt better/longer foreplay so she's better "waiting" once you opt on to insert.
2016-12-03 09:51:43 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋