promised hr 2 b wth hr as a best frnd n i ws continuing betterly bt recently b4 some days I ws talking to her & said to hr: "u r my best frnd, u undrstnd me better than any1, i wnt u 2 b my life partner. C got angry tht i cnt maintain my promise. Then i did many call-sms bt c didnt reply. Aftr 2 days r receivd my call & what c told me i tel u in hr words. : " i m forgiving u last time coz u hv did many favours 4 me, & so i hv 2 continue with u unwillingly - forcefully & if u ever propose me nw then u hv to think that i m died 4 u. No more I vl talk. I vl talk only once in a week & never think even to meet me." Her words hurted me a lot & nw i wouldnt like talk to hr. I want to leave hr bt my one friend told me not to leave hr. He told me dat if i leave hr then c vl 4get me n i vl nvr get hr back & also i dnt wnt that as c was very close to me n ws talking with me for hours n hours. I thought tht i should leave n forget hr bt my friends wrds r preventing me 2 do it as he told me dat c vl forget me n one told dat b wth hr wthout proposing hr c vl tel me one day. I m disturbed & cnt think anything. Plz show me the true way. Aftr all i love hr, wnt 2 b wth hr life time. Give me a solution plz. Sorry 4 my poor english.
2007-02-03 03:58:20 · 4 answers · asked by mayur shah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
personal advice:Propose to after a couple of months if she still doesn't accept and abandon you as a friend, if that happen then start of by being just another stranger slowly but surely regain the lost trust.
warning: This may take a long time are you willing to take the chance?
2007-02-03 04:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to be having a good heart having acknowledged the favours you have done for her. Have further frank discussion with alone and take a firm decision and also convey the same to her. Convince her that you are in true love and promise to keep up the promises. You will be happy soon.
2007-02-03 04:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by Marks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you should forget about her and find someone else. She has made it very clear that you two can be no more but friends so it's not use waiting for her in vain.
2007-02-03 04:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and her are on two different plains. A Friend she mite be, but that's all. Go and find your true mate in life. Let me tell you that when you find that right one you both will know it.
2007-02-03 04:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by russell c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋