okay, well, there's this guy i really like, & he likes me...but i've heard that he's a player. i asked him about his association w/ one particular girl, and he said he has nothing to do with her. yet, i have ppl telling me that he's going out with her, and even she's talking about them together. but i ask his friends, and they say no, that he really likes me. so, i was on myspace, and i got a message from ANOTHER girl saying that her & the guy i like are going out. the guy denies this. who do i believe?
2007-02-03 03:31:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I wouldn't believe him if that many girls are saying they are seeing him. You can do better and deserve better. There are more fish in the sea.
2007-02-03 03:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by little lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all of these people are telling you this about this guy then I'd believe them. It's not like it's just one or two people saying it, it's a lot of people. And asking his friends? Well of course they're going to stick up for him! And of course he's going to deny everything. I'd believe what other people are saying. Especially if you hear a girl talking about the fact that her and this guy are going out.
I've been through this and I'm not someone that's for believing what people say but in this case I'm saying to do it.
2007-02-03 11:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by meg (on Violet Hill) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, for me i think even a playboy will settle down 1 day so why bother with those rumours that u didnt even witness yourself? Maybe u will be the one he really wanna settle down with. If u truly love that person so much, u must trust him. Unless 1 day u have found out he had betrayed u, then just ditch him and thats not too late either. If u ditch him now maybe u will lose a lifetime lover. Who will gain from this?...those rumoursmakers...
2007-02-03 11:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by † Iríšh † 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His friends are on his side...think about that before trusting them.
As for the girl, think about what motivates her to contact you.
As for the guy, if starting a relationship with someone is causing all this drama, is it really worth it?
Believe in your gut feelings...
2007-02-03 11:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by White 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ladies still falling for that "I will have nothing to do with her" bit? This is a key line to make you feel special.
Trust me, he is a player and in less than a month he will feel the same about you and move on to his next victim.
2007-02-03 11:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
don't ever trust his friends...
you heard that he is a player.....ppl told you that he's going out with a girl....and another girl told you that he is going out with her also..look even if he likes you and you get to go out with him you'll be afraid that he might cheat on you...
u need someone who treats you like a princess..i think that this guy do not respect women....
2007-02-03 11:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, do you really want to be in a relationship that already has all that drama, and you're not even with him yet...
2007-02-03 11:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask around. lnvestigate it yourself so you'll know firsthand. lf you just ask you'll only hear denials. Better find it for yourself.
2007-02-03 11:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust no one.
2007-02-03 11:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Robert B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋