please help!!!!Me and my girlfriend of 3 yrs have been fighting for a while now.Its me who tries to call her up all the time.She only mails me once in 2 weeks r so.It has been a L.D.R for the past 1 year due to her studies.Her friend has written to her abt another guy that """he's cute!! you sure will look good together. i havent seen pics of
both of you together..but i can just imagine you two together...i'm
really happy for you!! who talks the most b/w you two? just
wondering...anyway, did you see him after he got back?""""Now...Is there anyway that this guy shes talkin abt is just my GF's friend r theres more to it like shes seein him and not being open abt it.Im certain that somethin is goin on,if not why would her friend reply to a mail in this manner if she was not told something abt this guy.Im just trying to confirm that im interpreting the message the right way....please give me a frank opinion.
2007-02-03 03:16:05 · 14 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like it is over. Sorry Dude.
2007-02-03 03:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by coffeegod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro, don't worry about it. If you don't trust her, just dump her and find someone else. Without trust you have nothing anyways. If she really wanted you her heart would not allow her to be away from you for very long. You have crash and burned. It happens to everyone a few times before finding a good match. All this sniveling shows weakness, and weakness is a huge turnoff to women. Dump her now while you still have a little dignity and move on. That kind of strength may get her to come back. That is your only hope with her. Let her believe there is another chick you like, even if you have to stage it, that will drive her crazy and put you in control. Show strength, not weakness.
2007-02-03 11:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by Milo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like she's found someone else. Since she's your girlfriend (not wife), get out while you can.
She's not putting anything into the relationship and it's not up to you to do all the calling.
Try to move on. Find a girl that will appreciate you and hopefully is closer to where you live. Dating isn't marriage. It's just a way to learn about what we want and what we don't want. Good luck.
2007-02-03 11:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you be sure that you are interpreting the right way. That statement itself is fishy from the point of view of your own unconscious mind. It appears to me that the whole episode is based on your illusion and imaginary fears/doubts. Have faith in whom you have love. It soon be clear to you and you will enjoy the reunion.
2007-02-03 11:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Marks 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most likely she has been out with this other guy. A long distance relationship usually cannot work out so why don't you break it off and get a life of your own?
2007-02-03 11:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lois M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is conclusive evidence that women really are insane. However, I don't think there's really much to be worried about; as long as you keep cool and don't do anything seriously objectionable, you should come out on top and you won't lose anything.
2007-02-03 11:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has decided to keep her options open and has decided to start dating other guys, since you already know this then get out of the relationship and dont try to stay in it otherwise you will onlyu get hurt over more things you find out espcially if she's not willing to be honest about what is going on...
2007-02-03 11:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you know about this in the first place, did she tell you? If she told you it is probably harmless, if you snooped and found this it might be something to worry about.
2007-02-03 11:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
franks opinion is: ur a nob...is she ur internet gf? if so then ur a gayboi and her m8 is probably droppin hints about her not likin u nemore. or shes tryin 2 get u jealous, i reckons u shud shag a grandad pig and send her the video of it 2 get HER jealous, tht will teach that skankwhore
2007-02-03 11:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Based on what her friend send there is definately something going on with this other guy. I think you are right on.
2007-02-03 11:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋