What am I supposed to do to fix this?
-my friend always says she'll show up or meet me somepleace and never does
-my boyfriend was supposed to call me and didn't, he was supposed to come to church to hear me sing a solo and didn't
-my mom is alwyas too concerned with her own issues to help me talk through my own
I feel so lonely and like everyone is just letting me down. I don't know where to go or what to do from here.
2007-02-03 03:05:26 · 24 answers · asked by cutie pie 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
TOO BAD, BUT HERE IS A SOLUTION,
MAKE NEW FRIENDS
DAMP YOUR BOY FRIENDS
AND HAVE YOURSELF ADOPTED BUT DIFFERENT SET OF PARENTS.
2007-02-03 03:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'm sure most people feel that way sometime or another, believe me, I do. Ever since I got married, I felt like my so-called freinds just abandoned me and were never there for me, I felt like my family looked down on me because I have no children and my best friend, the one person who I though I could count on, moved to a different country. I think you should tell them how you feel, and figure out how to resolve the problem together. The best way to deal with issues like this is to be honest and open about your feelings. At least then, they will know. Maybe they don't realize that they are hurting you. Good luck.
2007-02-03 11:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful you sound like a candidate for a cult.
I suggest you start a 360 page and also look for a few new friends at work or church. Also you may think about doing some volunteer work to meet genuine people.
2007-02-03 11:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why I like to stay to myself, at least I cannot let myself down, don't feel lonely because that will just make you feel worse and get depressed. Start doing things on your own, it is more fun that way alot of times, you can do what you want, when you went, you don't have to worry about waiting for someone else to get done with their stuff, all you will have to worry about is yourself and be happy!! =)
2007-02-03 11:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is the only faithful friend you'll ever have. Noone is perfect.I felt the same as you .....My friends always fail me but I keep being their friends because I know that if I fail them,Then in the future Someone will again do the same to me.....I only put my trust in God.........Everytime I need to talk or something ,I pray and tell God everything as like he was here beside me....Remember that God is not only your friend ,but also your Heavenly father who cares for you spiritually and Loves you so much...
2007-02-03 11:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by carebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like its life for you to realise..in life...there isn't anyone you can depend on....just yourself.
Learn to take matters into your own hands..If you want something done..do it yourself...if you have a goal..achieve it yourself.
Life is full of disappointments when you lean on other people. If you don't have that...don't sit around in your tears...Get up and prove them wrong that yes you can do it yourself and be a stronger and better person for it.
2007-02-03 11:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutie Pie, I hope things get better for you. But the only way to do that is to atleast talk to your parents. The key is communication. I can't suggest anything for your friend or boyfriend....but let them know how you feel without getting angry.
Smile!
2007-02-03 11:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by maylianalis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i am so sorry i often feel the same way. except i dont have a boyfriend. and my friend always blow me off for their boyfriends. it gets lonely but just learn to make your self happy without always needing others to make u feel better. what goes around comes around. thats the way i see it. your friends are going to feel bad one day for treating you that way. but just know that everyone feels the way you do sometimes. u will get through it.
2007-02-03 11:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shopping will fix the boyfriend thing (buy a new pair of tight jeans... not the yeast infection ones... but form fitting).. lose your friend and indulge in you... that is the one person that will NEVER let you down... aside from God!!
2007-02-03 11:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by WhoDidThat??? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES C.P., it's called growing up,becoming an adult,now what you must do is turn the tables,make people depend on you,it's easy to do.
2007-02-03 11:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by kman1830 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound self centered and needy. But I mean that in the best possible way.
2007-02-03 11:12:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋