I like my best guy friend and he knows but he has a little crush on another girl. should i be honest and tell him how much he means to me and possible lose him if it goes wrong or dont say anything and lose him without him not knowing how much i care for him. (sorry if this sounds weird im just afraid to lose him as a friend if I take a step forward and tell him. Or if i tell him nothing and still lose him. I just don't know how he will react.) -thanks to those who help (and its not because of his crush)
2007-02-03 02:47:21 · 6 answers · asked by :)! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just talk to him. Maybe he feels the same, but doesnt want to risk the friendship either.
2007-02-03 02:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Chevy Girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just went through something like that.... but the dude could talk to me and everything and i knew who he liked but i had liked him.. but i always hinted it and he was ether to stupid to notice or just ignored it... but i still think you should do what you think is best... you never know maybe he just says he likes this other girl to throw you off.. or maybe he's serious about liking a girl... you could always take a change and tell him and maybe he'll notice that you are a great person... but if it doesnt sooner or later he'll turn around... but if you tell him now you might feel much better and you two can still be friends...
2007-02-03 11:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it might be a big leap of faith but you need to tell him how you feel...who cares if he has a crush on another girl...maybe if you tell him everything you're feeling he will realize that he feels the same way about you...
and well if it doesnt turn out...at least you told him...
good luck
2007-02-03 11:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him if you really have feeling for him, unless you think he is going to like flip out on you, but I told my best friend how much I liked him even though he liked another girl and things turned out good, He told me he had always liked me too he just didnt know how to tell me , but thats not how it always works so If he doesnt like you like that then just tell him that you would still like to be friends
2007-02-03 10:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HOW YOU FELL its the best thing to do if your scared to loose him it will show you really care and probably open his eyes to you.
2007-02-03 10:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just go for it , be spontaneous, and do what your heart tells you
2007-02-03 10:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by cardboardmanx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋