I am unattractive from the front but high up there on looks from the side and its bugging the hell outa me. Ive been approached randomly in the street and had girls shouting at me across the street about being "hot".
Problem is I have no confidence when it comes to dating and dont let girls get close anymore because I always have this worry that Ill be seen eventually as unattractive - because technically one half of me is ugly and the other is goodlooking (it has happened once and it was a killer for the confidence).
I have an underdeveloped upper jaw (thnx to a dentist not picking up the problem as a kid) which makes my frontal appearance "weak" - my cheekbones are not pronounced and my face is not symmetrical because of it. Surgery will correct the problem but I dont want to get surgery - cause Im a bloke who should suck it up and get on with things - but think that if its preventing me from being comfortable in a relationship I think I should.
Any thoughts...
2007-02-03 01:23:48 · 5 answers · asked by Mick R 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
LOL! Don't be a vain pain. People will like you regardless of your looks. Being good looking helps you get your foot in the door, but personality knocks it open.
Also how can you see the side of your head???
Do you take pictures? Or careful mirror angling (only the very vain or paranoid can master this)
2007-02-03 01:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Secret Cola Ninja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you and I had the money, I'd get the surgery. I don't believe it would make you a sissy to go ahead and get it done. You've already stated that if your dentist would have caught it when you were a child, it would have been taken care of back then.
I don't think this is just a cosmetic problem. It may cause you other problems too, such as headaches, bad teeth, poor digestion, etc.
If you got the surgery done, you wouldn't have to worry about the way you look. You wouldn't be self-conscious. You could be yourself. You would go about your business with a clear mind because you wouldn't be thinking oh man, I feel unattractive and I am only half the guy I want be... if only I could see myself in a different light. You'd have confidence not only with women, but in other areas too. I say go for it!
2007-02-03 01:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by sunshynesuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl you'll want to be with won't care about that. She'll find it gives you character. You could always come to America. Girls go crazy here for a British accent, and I assume you are British because no one here uses the word "bloke"!
2007-02-03 01:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Untitled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seriously reconsider the surgery, there is no other good&permanent solution to this
2007-02-03 01:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get surgery. people dont care about stuff like that.
2007-02-03 01:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by dasistgut_15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋