Say you are married with but now you found your true love, your soulmate, if you are a husband will you leave your wife, and if your a wife will you leave your husband?
2007-02-03 01:14:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please expalain your answer?
2007-02-03 01:15:17 · update #1
Will you still stay with your husband/wife after you found out that someone else is actualy the one that you trully love and the one that is actualy is your soulmate?....Will you leave your life miserable and also stop your partner from looking for his/her soulmate? If you trully beliave that someone else is your trully love, will you just stay with your wife and live a lie. Which means you wont get get your true love and your wife will also wont get a true love?
2007-02-03 01:54:21 · update #2
you have probably just found lust.............stay with your wife and kids..........you will regret it if you don't
2007-02-03 01:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by ladybug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shoulda looked longer and harder before marriage to begin with and especially had kids. The NEW "soulmate" could be an infatuation too. It takes a while to build a good, long, strong lasting relationship with anyone. You can't tell if someone is your "soulmate" in a short time. Looks can be deceiving. What's on the inside AFTER you get to know them is the REAL them. MOST people put their best foot forward in any new relationship.
I wouldn't.
I wonder what would happen if they made the marriage vows into a "LAW" of some sort. If you violate them you go to prison or something. Maybe then peole wouldn't take them so lightly.
2007-02-03 01:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I left my 1st husband after only 4 months! There were kids involved but they weren't his,I had them before I met him.I had married him on the rebound after my relationship with my kids father broke down. It was obvious to me within a week of the wedding that I had messed up big time! The other party was a colleague who became a shoulder to cry on and the rest is history. Yes,it was a sh*tty thing to do and I certainly didn't take it lightly. My husband was understandably furious when I told him and made the divorce very difficult. However,9 years later I am still with the other guy.He is the love of my life and we have two children together! It was a mess but it was worth it!
2007-02-03 01:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by New Boots. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you've found someone who makes your whole life seem so much better, gives you a joy you never thought was possible, and who gives you love and safety and happiness, you should try to be with this person. it's always harder to be with them if you're already married, but you have to chose. nothing is set in stone in this life, nothing is unchangeable.
personally, i don't think anyone should feel morally or otherwise obliged to stay in a situation where they will be unhappy and always regretting 'the one that got away'. there are ways in today's society to adapt around a person leaving their family.
isn't it more unfair to remain in an unloving relationship? your children will see the lack of love between you two, and grow up emotionally stunted. it's so important for kids to see their parents in love, and if that has to be with other partners then it's still better than growing up with 2 people who just live together because a marriage certificate bound them to. good luck with your decisions.
2007-02-04 07:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No for two reasons. The kids and the covenant obligation you have with your legal wife. Like the song goes, it is sad when you belong to someone else when the right one comes along. But what to do you just have to bite the bullet and be the father you were meant to be as assigned by heaven even though it was not by the "chosen one"-soul mate.
2007-02-03 01:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious on how do you know that this person is your soul mate? I have always wanted to know how people know this. And if in fact that you feel this way about someone else then yes I think you should be honest to yourself and your wife and end this pretend marriage that you are now in. And I agree that she could have a chance at finding someone that really loves her. I'm sure she can tell if your heart isn't in it anymore. You will not be doing your kids any favors if you are not truly happy at home. I've said this a million times, Kids see a lot more than people think they do.
2007-02-03 02:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No not at all I chose my husband so NO i would not leave him at all.... If he died however and i was free to marry him again and then i found my soulmate then yes and only then would i pursue him and that only would be if he was available and not married and if He was Gods will for my life. However I feel that i am married to my soulmate right now so why would i want to leave him anyways?
2007-02-03 01:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well when I met my "the one" he was married and has 2 kids. first we were just fooling around then we fell in love. we couldnt fight it anymore, we hated being apart and my gosh he has never loved anyone like me before and he makes that very clear. well we've been together now for awhile and we are happier then ever. He asked me to marry him and of course I said yes, I could not go through life without him by my side and same for him. If your heart isnt there anymore and maybe it wasnt for awhile then it is only fair to her and the kids that you leave. Just be careful that she doesnt start trouble for you, such as calling ur new girlfriends house 50 times a day, that could make her fall away from you and you dont want that, especially if she is the one you were meant to be with!
2007-02-03 01:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by tralw2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that once u marry THAT person is said to be your soulmate. If your marriage is bad then go get counceling. But if you absolutely cannot live without this person - get a legal seperation or a divorce FIRST! If you are truly not happy then yes get out of the marriage. We all deserve to be happy.
2007-02-03 01:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is jealous and lonely now that you have moved on to a happier place in your life with another woman. She probably liked it when you were miserable. Don't go backwards. If it doesn't work with your ex the second time around, you will be putting your kids through unnecessary pain and suffering.
2016-03-29 02:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How as a married person could you be intimate enough in conversation and other things to know another was your soul mate? This would be wrong to begin with.
I personally don't believe in soulmates, just mates that take care of your soul.
2007-02-03 04:30:04 · answer #11 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋