How much of a factor was your husband's sexual skills and abilities when you decided to marry him. Try and give a percentage. My wife tells me it was 99% of the reason she married me. I cant tell if she is joking or not. What say you married women.
2007-02-03 01:12:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
some of you are way too serious.
2007-02-03 01:23:34 · update #1
btw married for 14 years
2007-02-03 01:28:30 · update #2
she is a good wife, knows how to turn her hubby on even tho he may doubt her words. bet yr prayin for a couple 100%'s huh ;)
2007-02-03 01:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say 50%..........cause alot of men didn't ever do some things with the women in there past. There are alot of women who won't do certain things for there man. So for instance my husband did not do spontanious things, or have oral things done to him. So he was VERY prudish when I met him. Different people bring out different sides of you. So when both your guards are down then it's when you both can have fun. In the begining it's all about alot of sex and the basics. I don't think any women bases there mans sex skill or abilities on 99%. If that was true then they would want somone just for sex!!!! It's good to have skills but not all people have done everything. I think it's her way of telling you she thinks your good in bed. But if that's the case she should just tell you.
2007-02-03 09:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say it was probably 50% of the reason but it wasn't just his "skills". That score also encompasses my attraction to him in the physical sense, his intimate knowledge of me personally, and the fact that we were seen as a couple by all of our friends already.
The other 50%, in case you want to know, was his ability to provide for a family, the type of husband and father I thought he would be, his personal habits, his family, his friendship, his personality, his style, taste, his health and his love for me.
2007-02-03 11:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad but true... you gonna have to make sure you are on top of the game coz if the percentage starts going down, she might start looking for satisfaction elsewhere. She shouldn't have said 99 even if it was true..pressure on you!
2007-02-03 10:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Riderya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, i'ts only 10%, 'coz there are other factors I considered before I married my husband: 20% for his faithfulness, 20% for security, and the biggest factor is 50% for his love for me.
2007-02-03 09:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a big factor at all because we wanted to wait til marriage to have sexual relations... I married him because of who he was and how he loved and treated me and I married him to be a wife to him that God would have me to be.
2007-02-03 09:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20%. I place the highest percentage on his ability to openly & honestly communicate. If that is a weak area, then sex will be weak too.
2007-02-03 11:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin when i married, so it had nothing to do with sex.
What a horrible reason to marry someone. What would happen if you became impotent. Would she cheat on you? I hope she was just kidding.
2007-02-03 09:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy of 3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby is the BEST I have ever had, but that is NOT why I married him. He is honest, caring, loving, compassionate. He always puts ME first before himself.(I put him first too..so it kinda works out for us..lol) hard working, dependable, etc. etc.
If he couldn't have sex anymore starting today. I would NOT divorce him. Sex ain't everything. LOVE IS
2007-02-03 09:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe for her it had to be the sex because you had nothing else to offer.
Hey if my man makes me all tingly inside and good in bed then wow sex is just a bonus. Nothing is better then being in his arms before we go to bed and when we wake up.
2007-02-03 09:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by tralw2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋