and her ex was there and she talked to him for over a hour (he is not the daddy), then lied to you about talking to him first (said he answered the phone and it was only for a min) then stated It wasn't long not sure how long (like no one knows when its a hour)? She then started with the "I can talk to who ever I want" and "Why should I trust you" back talk.
Your thought's all...
2007-02-03 00:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not her sons real grandmothe but treated as one.
He lives there now becasue at 19, he has no car, no steady job, and is worthless.
And she has cheated with him before.
2007-02-03 00:39:16 · update #1
First of all, why was the ex at her grandmothers? Is Grandma playing favourites?
It MAY be totally innocent. She may have gone there, he was there, they chatted, she left and didnt want to worry you, so covered it up. Realistically, she can talk to whoever she wants.
However, the whole argument is pretty imature. She is a parent now, and if the two of you dont trust each other then really you should question your relationship. But she obviously feels she couldnt tell you the truth. Do you get jealous?
I am assuming you are the babies father?
Anyway, I think that it is unfair to expect her NOT to talk to him at all, BUT at the same time, she should NOT have lied about it.
This is nothing a good talk and maybe a bunch of flowers wont fix. You need to tell her though that she needs to always be honest with you - and you will always be honest with her.
All the best
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I just read your additional details. That changes everything. If she has cheated on you with him in the past, then she should NOT be talking to him if she respects you.
She is a mother, and her baby needs to be her number one priority.
You really should examine your relationship. It is unkind of her to be spending any time with him at all, if she has been unfaithful!
2007-02-03 00:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like too much drama. You should move on.
2007-02-03 08:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm odd!
2007-02-03 08:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why was he there? you may want to exam your relationship with her...
2007-02-03 08:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get of her back. stop eating her. leave her alone.
2007-02-03 08:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by ally i 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋