some things I can do to make him feel appreciated and happy. I've asked him and he says he doesn't want/need anything, yet if that were true why all of the arguments?
2007-02-02 23:46:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please don’t ask him! Let yr heart guide you and tell him how much you appreciate him in every sense. No doubt cooking him his favourite dish, giving him a surprise massage (in candle light room, fragranced oil, yummy), meaningful gentle touches, (these don’t have to be sexual), yr body language and eye contact will give plenty of clues as to how much you care for him, mobile txts, cards etc will go a long way. Try the element of surprise and remember that our men are visual, so dressing to pleas him will go a very long way too. Good luck!
2007-02-03 00:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it takes 2 to work on it together. It is hard to talk to men and find out what they need and want or even just their feelings. I quess I can say just stand beside him and let him know how you feel and watch to see what had gone on around him before the fights. I am dealiing with the same thing and I just keep trying because I love him but you have to know he really wants the same thing. You can try but if he is unhappy it will never work. And if he dosn't act like he care about your thought and feeling then he is not happy were he is. I hope everything gets better. One thing try him getting home no one else there no TV, phones, no interuption. Maybe a dinner some soft lighting and you and him. And tell him now that the rest of the world is out of service it is time to work on us what do you think.
2007-02-03 00:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. You guys are just going through a time where you are so used to taking each other for granted. Take a step back and remember what it was like during those exciting times like when you first got together or moved in together... what did you do for him back then? Make him feel like he's important to you. Leave him little notes around the house before he goes off to work or even put a post it note with a little message on his steering wheel to let him know your thinking of him.
Make him a nice lunch for work and add a little flower or an old photo of the two of you, to bring a smile to his face.
Maybe you are both under a bit of pressure right now, i don't know but trust me, a few little changes and your marriage will be back on track. Just remember, love prevails above all!
2007-02-02 23:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One person cannot fix everything that causes arguments. Your husband needs to put forth an effort too to make things better.
2007-02-03 00:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him you love him and care and make him feel that he is the most wonder fullest person in the world don't argue about petty things, life is what you make of it, In order to move on to the future stop living in the past because the past is behind you now..
2007-02-02 23:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be right, maybe he is going through personal problem and he don't want you to know, all you need to do is have patience and keep calm with him try to obey some of his orders. we were in the same condition few months ago but now we are over it, he told me he was under going some personal problem but now he is over it.
2007-02-02 23:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best bed enjoy
2007-02-03 00:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋