How To Keep Ex-Husband away?

Question

I have been divorced for the past 6 years. We have 2 children from this married. I am now in a relationship of 5 1/5 years, with one child, we have just brought last October. My ex-husband is in a relationship for the past 7months. The ex-husband and I had a so so relationship regarding the children. Since my ex-husband has been seeing this new woman, there have been major problems. We have shared care with the children. He is trying to make me payment child support to him. I am a stay at home mum. Since he has been seeing this new woman. I have been getting annoying private calls at home and on my mobile. I caught them out once when I got a call, heard my son calling his sister, He is claiming that I maliciously damaged his car by keying it, at my daughter doctors appointment (she has epilepsy). dealt with the courts now.He is now harassing me at school when I am picking up the children. I have had enough, I'm now filing for an AVO on him. What else can I do. Please Help

Answer 1

ex-husbands tend to do what the new girlfriend wants them to do. from my experience it usually comes from the girlfriend being threatened by the fact that yous were once married and do have children together. i say from experience because my ex-husband and i had a good relationship afterward until he got his girlfriend and now it's nothing but trouble. he even admitted to me that she feels threatened by the fact that we were married for over 10 years. i am now remarried, so i don't know what her issues is. all i can suggest is to get a lawyer and sort this out in court. but you have to remember to do what is best for the children. my question is that if you have shared care for your children why would you have to pay child support? also record any and all strange calls you get, ask the phone company to find out where the calls are coming from, as for your mobile, your bill should tell you the phone numbers of all incoming and outgoing calls to your number. i wish you luck!

Answer 2

Understand this! Child support is not something that can change at the whim of the father. The court says pay then you pay! Just because the circumstances have changed, doesn't mean that he can dictate what will happen with child support. One more thing! Do Not Modify Your Visitation without the courts approval!!!!!!!!! This will come back and bite you in the buns quite quickly! If you have already done this then put it back to normal and tell your ex that you have learned that this was unlawful and just want to stay within the confines of the law. Tell him if he wants to modify the visitation or the child support payments then do so legally, through the court system, but until then everything is as written in the initial court documents!!!! You may need to eye ball him here, and tell him if the payments don't continue on time YOU will inform the court and garnish his wages! Don't be nice here! That's the kiss of death. One final thing, dating someone doesn't constitute a change in lifestyle. If he gets married then things can change, but not until then!

Answer 3

Wow. Would tell you to get the restraining order first and a stop and desist order regarding the calls, Get an answering machine and record this menacing or harassing calls. I doubt the courts will make you pay support to him you have no income and you are not legally married to your partner so I believe they cannot count his income. Also psychological help for you and your children, it is good for you and it looks good for you for when you go to court. You can also include the school grounds on your restraining order. Visitation should be mediated thru a third party, like leave the kids at a family member's house or a trusted friend he can pick them up there and drop them off later .Or family court can arrange this. Arrive at this place before and after he is there, try not to do it at same time. Try to conduct everything thru the courts, lawyers( legal assistance services are free or low cost and they are very good at handeling this type). Most of all keep a level head, don't get sucked into name-calling fights and keep safe.

Answer 4

I'm not understanding why you let this man pick up the kids 3 hours late. You need to tell him, and the kids, that if he doesn't pick them up on time, there will be no visit. You are perfectly within your rights to do this; so exercise some authority in this matter. If he's making the kids feel bad on their visits, you need to discuss this with him (not in anger, and not when the kids are present). Again, exercise some authority. At their age, I wouldn't push these visits on them. If they wanted to go, they could (if he picked them up on time); and if they didn't want to go, I'd call and tell him just that! There's nothing for you to be livid about because he wants to introduce them to his girlfriend. It may not be the most appropriate thing for him to do, but some men don't know any better; and you don't need to be going crazy over it. It doesn't matter how long he's known her; so stop making that an issue. Your children are old enough to decide if they want to share their visits with this woman, without you putting salt in the game. You only make matters worse when you do that. Do be sure you deal with this 3 hour late thing. You don't have to tolerate that nonsense.

Answer 5

Tell him you're pregnant with twins and you're naming him as the father and the person you're with now thinks this a wonderful idea.

Answer 6

yes take the course with an avo maybe upgrade to a dvo --- after all he is hassling you ( in your face type ) he needs to grow up .
good luck

Answer 7

Can a male and female be friends?

Answer 8

the new women is causing this,it is all about money, and him not wanting to pay support. she is jealous of u and wants to do hurtful things to upset u.

Answer 9

Double barrell shot gun,

Answer 10

talk to the police