Nowadays, the cheats have been increasing in relationship, please tell me the reasons caused this bad situation
2007-02-02 22:58:28 · 9 answers · asked by Peter G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If every woman/man REFUSED to be available to married men/women all lucky wives/husbands could get more secure happy future, the cheaters need to wake up and get real, they put themselves in situation where everyone LOSES. The cheaters are the opportunists jump in any marriage/relationship breakdown is -Lack of communication-Lack of commitment=No compromise. It's very sad situation they are going through.
Commitment is necessary in relationship to avoid the cheat
2007-02-03 12:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a few of the reasons for the bad behavior of people anymore, to include cheating.
We have all but eliminated God and what he said, in society and at home. Half of our churches in this country have become liberal havens for nonsense instead of teaching and holding to the scriptures.
Moral and immoral are now considered to be what people think, like, agree with instead of what God said was moral or immoral.
There is no real cost for doing wrong anymore. From gay marriage, abortions, premarital sex, divorce on demand, crime rates, etc. There is always a legion of people out to excuse or defend any bad behavior and no one is looked down upon for being bad anymore. Examples: I bet many of you have family or freinds whom you know are bad, but you dont treat them as if they are or refuse to associate with them. These people can still get or keep good jobs. The community doesnt run them out of town.
Our laws often reward bad behavior. Look at divorce court rulings and you will see this.
Lastly, it may be many reaping what they have planted.
2007-02-03 00:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not cheating in relationship. What is happening is that both the partners do not get along well and one of them quietly leaves the other finding it difficult to say "NO". The other person feels that he has been cheated. There are various reasons where one partner leaves the other. It could be
ego problems,
not understanding each other,
trifle fights,
one of them being selfish not bothering about other
2007-02-02 23:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partly due to a lack of faith and religion in the family, and the prevailing mocking of marriage in society. We don't hold marriage as sacred as we used to.
The internet doesn't always help it at all, but even that is not an excuse.
2007-02-02 23:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have changed through the yrs they get bored w/ being w/ the same person for so many yrs & the grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence.
2007-02-02 23:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no moral standing in society today.
Children are not taught to be honest or loyal to their family's or themselves.
Therefore when they become involved in a relationship they have no loyalty to their partner.
My opinion.
2007-02-02 23:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lack of sincerity devotion committment,selfishness
absence of all such things which used to be a part of our life
cheating of all type increasing
2007-02-02 23:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u ready to accept the truth then accept that ur spouse will do it but u will not leave the game and he will not do it.
2007-02-02 23:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lack of god in their life, lack of morals, their past, no conscience, how they were raised, their belief's, poor impulse control,poor character, no fear of god, and his commandments.
2007-02-03 00:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋