Or you'd stay away from the wife as well? Being embarrassed in front of her and afraid of that you may blab out the secret indiscreetly?
2007-02-02 21:56:26 · 7 answers · asked by anita b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I said he asked only. I didn't do it!!!
2007-02-02 22:08:11 · update #1
He asked but I didn't do it. Sorry for misleading!
2007-02-02 22:09:44 · update #2
I'm assuming you told him "no".
If that is the case, chances are he isn't going to bring it up ever again.
Unless you two are the closest of friends, I keep her Husband's indiscretion to yourself for now.
Especially if this is just a casual friendship. There is no need to get into the middle of a marriage blow-up. He'll just deny it anyways, and you will end up having to defend yourself.
Steer clear of the Husband one on one if you can.
2007-02-02 22:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the world coming to? He had no right to put you in that position!
He does not deserve his wife! If he is bold enough to ask his wife's friend, what else is he doing.
There should not be a secret. He may even tell her you came on to him!
Now you are feeling uncomfortable and you should not be.
I would not stay friends with her because it is not fare to her for her husband to have verbalized that he desires you and it is like flaunting it in her face as he is looking at you with desire and she is clueless. If she finds this out later, she will be very hurt.
She may already know what kind of non-man he is, but this could be the straw, she could get rid of him and keep you as her friend. Just put your self in her place and I think the answer will be clear!
If she blames you, then you have really lost nothing. Take care and good luck o.k.
If he is the violent kind of man, you should get some professional help with this question.
2007-02-03 06:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend you should tell her what he asked of you, no matter what. because down the road if he is caught cheating an you knew he was capable then she would have every right to be mad at you. Just tell her and if she gets mad let her, she will have to realize who he is before she will believe anyone. she will come around and if she doesnt then you know you were right and she will look stupid in the end anyway.
2007-02-03 10:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by tralw2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be sleeping with a married man!!!! Can't you find someone that isn't married with all the men out there? You would be the cause of their breakup because the wife will find out.. What you do in the dark always comes out in the light.
2007-02-03 06:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think you need to worry more about your marriage and less about what the women you ask to sleep with you will do. Why do you need to cheat on her with her friends you are asking for trouble. Suggest you start shopping for a good lawyer now.
2007-02-03 06:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by noddy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just save yourself the drama - DONT DO IT! You should tell the wife that her husband is hitting on you.
2007-02-03 06:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Eve M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should tell the wife. and no she most likely will nolonger be your friend, unless she leaves the jerk, in which case you will be her best friend.
2007-02-03 06:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋