If married, is it wrong to have a female best friend?

I think your wife should be your best friend. Guys and girls usually enjoy different things and have different opinions and if you are enjoying a females time, attention, company and opinions (which is usually why you have a best friend) than why not your wife's?

2007-02-03 03:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Trisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

It would really depend on your wife. If she is okay with it, then I would say, "Sure." However, it leaves the door open for her to have a male best friend. I would have to say that I would prefer that my husband have a male best friend, and I would respect him and have a female best friend. That way, if there are any moments of weakness, well, it would be far less easy to stray. I wouldn't want to take a chance on messing up something so important. Good luck.

2007-02-03 05:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by debdini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

its not wrong if things dun go wrong or overboard

its ok if ur date with ur female best friend is accompany with ur wife

let them know each other, let your wife know how best friend u both r so that she can have a sense of security

but on the other hand, can u be sure u will always treat tat female best friend as best friend only??

2007-02-03 05:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Your wife should be your one and only best friend...yes you can have male friends.,some people used to say a male can have a healthy friendship with a female without any relationship...but who ever having these relationship pls."ask your own mind w/out cheating whether you have any special feelings lying under/dept of your heart."..99% of them could tell to their mind as YES cause of consequences (family of both or society or etc) they used to keep their feelings with them only...but if the chances are ok.., they become close enough to have EVEN physical relationship...HISTORY SPEAKS.

2007-02-03 05:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

yes as much as it may be ok for you yes it is wrong for a married man to have a female as a best friend.. just liek it would be wrong for your wife to have male best friend..

you are each others best friend.. repect each other and always rememebr that you might think is ok could be killing her inside.. ok.. so drop your friend and keep your wife..good luck...

2007-02-03 05:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by Eustasia P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Dont listen to the MORONS that say you shouldn't hang out with a femal without your wife, that **** is some childesh immature SUPER jealous BS!! If you have a woman who is a very good friend and NOTHING more, then that should not be a problem, I've had g/f's before who had guys who had been there for them through some tough time, before I was there for her, and now was likea big brother to them, and they were best friends while we dated, it shouldn't be a problem if you're a mature and trusting couple.

2007-02-03 05:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by Wsdm 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋

Only if you don't mind your wife having a Male best friend whom she spends her free time with.

2007-02-03 05:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

No it is not wrong , You can have female friend , but your wife must have trust on you.

2007-02-03 05:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tulip4Heaven 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋

Your best friend should be your wife.... you shouldn't be hanging out with the opposite sex without your wife

2007-02-03 05:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

honestly i think your wife should be your best friend. although i don't see a problem with you having friends of the opposite sex, as long as there is nothing sexual involved.(talking about sex, cyber sex you get the picture). you and your wife need to talk about it, and you need to take her feelings into consideration.

2007-02-03 08:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

If married, is it wrong to have a female best friend?

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