Whether woman should have sex whenever their husband (partner) wants them to…
If not what will happen? or what will husband has to do? Or how to deal with kind of situations in a realistic manner, please.
2007-02-02 20:56:17 · 14 answers · asked by Vips_5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know about you but I can get my wife in the "mood" if i try hard enough. I don't mean with force or pestering. I mean by doing something nice and/or romantic. Back rub works every time for me. Bath with rose pedals in the water with candles lit (that night was incredible) . good luck
GET HER IN THE MOOD WITH LOVE
2007-02-10 04:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by longhaired_jesusfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love making should be a mutual feeling. In some peoples faith beliefs it is taught that women are to submit to thier husbands. Submission defined is to surrender ones own control to another. That's not love making to me! If she is frigid she may have an abusive past that still haunts her. She may not even remember,selective memory. A certain touch, smell or sound can trigger feelings she don't understand herself. Talk to her with caring sensitivity. I could be way off and would then suggest ROMANCE. Violence is a ticket to the state pen. LOVE HER Don't hurt her.
2007-02-07 21:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one should have sex if they don't want to. It is not the legal or otherwise, right of a husband to be entitled to sex. Forcing sex on your partner is rape and yes you can rape your wife. It is illegal. The husband should find ways to be intimate with his wife in ways that don't lead to sex. Talk to her and suggest counselling. There may be reasons that are medical for her disinterest. Tell her that you are concerned for her health and ask if she has had a recent physical. If there is nothing wrong, you may have to find ways of dealing with your desires. Self satisfaction might be one way or talk to your dr. to see if there are suggestions for you.
2007-02-03 17:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kathleen B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider a lot things that may cause her this way. Are you wanting it everyday? Twice a day? Or are we talking once a month? Sometimes my husbands actions during the day (ALL DAY) lead to me wanting to at night. You can't always turn it on and off that fast. When my kids were younger I wasn't ever interested. Sometimes just did out of obligation. There are a lot of things to consider.
2007-02-10 15:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the woman isnt in the mood for sex, you cant make her just because you want to..on demand. Your marraige wont last long at that rate. You would have to talk to her about it and see if you can have some compromise, or you will have to work harder to put her in the mood for some lovin.. If you love her you should also respect her.
2007-02-03 05:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if she is not in the mood she is stressed or something instead of thinking about sex...maybe you run her a bath with bubbles and soothing music and let her soak and then when she gets out maybe a body massage. But don't keep at her for sex...sex is not the only thing in a marriage.
2007-02-10 23:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by mommyoftwo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on a couple. Ideally, they would both want to have sex about the same time, but if the drives are drastically different, it would be fair to "meet in the middle", or go with different partners.
2007-02-03 05:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if a woman don't want to have sex with her husband I think that is up to her.
2007-02-09 22:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make the woman have sex even if she is your wife. There should be an understanding to meet in the middle if yor sexual desires are not the same.
2007-02-10 12:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO one should have to have sex if they choose not to. It is a violation of their rights.
married or other wise.
But I can tell you she would get in the mood quicker if you just quit bugging for it all the time.
2007-02-10 20:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋