After "winning" an argument with your wife doesn't it feel like you lost anyway?

Question

She then says things are fine but obviously she isn't. You can tell they are still mad at you but won't admit it. What to do?

Answer 1

If you won a argument with a woman that is the first i ever heard of it. Best thing is to learn to pick your battles. Let the little stuff go. Your married life will be a lot better

Answer 2

Winning an argument is like winning the special olympics, you're still retarded. No one wins dude, it's always a lose lose situation in that. But things will settle, just do your best to avoid arguments and try to settle things with compromise, before things blow up into an argument

Answer 3

If you insist on winning all the arguments she will stay mad, because it makes her feel that you don't respect her intelligence. What would it hurt to concede defeat once in a while? It would probably do wonders for her self esteem and your home and married life.

Answer 4

How is it that in my 7+ years relationship, my gf and I never had an argument? We had discussions, never heated, we had differences of opinion, but never beat each other up so that one was the winner and one was the loser. We never went to sleep mad at each other which allowed us to have 30 minutes good-night kisses.

When I was married, it was always the way that you describe. What to do? Don't compete. Marriages are partnerships not adversarial jousting tournaments. Channel the passion and time spent on arguing into lovemaking.

Answer 5

Who cares? Women arent ever happy unless you give in to them or let them have their way, and then they still find a way to be mad at you even if you let them win or they bested you. Look, women have this idea that simply because they have a vagina, they win or are entitled to princess status.

Who cares if she is mad? Dont let it bother you and dont give in just because she is mad at you. The only time you should ever concede is when you were wrong. If you are wrong, you should back down, but thats is. Just because someone is mad is no reason to give in or back down. Let them be mad. Shows they are the stupid one and feel free to explain this to them and then treat them as they act.

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Answer 6

You must have been pretty ferocious with your argument for her to still be mad at you
Try going up and apologising for arguing and that you don't like to argue with her but softly state you both are allowed your own opinion and you respect her for standing up for what she believes to be true. And in the in the last sentence, hold her close and tell her you love her and want to put it aside.

Answer 7

Funny cause its true, I admit we women are like that. Well some, the reason to this is cause we know deep inside that we are right even if your right we still think well if this would of happen that wouldnt of happen so I'm right. Things you have to live with, she'll get over. Us women are so complicated sometimes.

Answer 8

I've seen a lot of marriages come to an end because the guy just had to dominate his wife. Would it really be a problem for you to find a way to appease her or come to a fair resolution between the two of you?

Answer 9

Remember this, and don't win again. There is no victory in winning at times. You can get the desired outcome without winning, it is called finesse.

Answer 10

Nope, I've never felt like that. Hey, she wins some, I win some.