Okay, I jsut had unprotected sex with my boyfriend for the first time EVER... aghhh...um, if i just ended my mothly cycle like a day or so ago, should it be okay you know pregnancy wise? And um...what should I do... to clean around there...?
2007-02-02 20:19:38 · 12 answers · asked by Love struck 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
there is a 50/50 chance. Nevertheless...u must see your doctor.
2007-02-02 21:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you won't have to pay the price for this stupidity. You sound way too young to be having sex.
To answer the practical part, just wash the 'outside' parts normally. Then put a pad in your underware. Whatever's left will just drip onto the pad, and after a couple of hours you could throw the pad away and wash up again if you feel sticky.
Another thing, that you REALLY shouldn't push aside is the fact that you still could get pregnant. Since this just happened, you have up to 36 hours to get yourself PlanB. This is a pill or 2, that you take as soon as possible, to prevent insemination. Go to a health clinic, they'll know all about it. You still have time. This would be a very smart thing to do after having ANY unprotected sex. The smarter thing to do, is not to have unprotected sex.
2007-02-02 20:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha. i love to have sex without a condom but im aware of the consequences that will occur after doing so. beforehand, u must be aware of urself that having sex is a bit fun/nice or whatever u call it, in just a couple of seconds (depending on how u make it), but the problem lies after or could be the rest of ur life (esp if u get pregnant) lol. & also, how about if he has disease? didnt u think ull be contaminated too before doing it? anyway u had done it, so i think its better for u to go a clinic right away (as u still have time) for precautions of getting pregnant. there is available pill for that preventing pregnancy after sex within a couple of hours. then have urself tested for possible disease. & next time u do it, try to have protection before letting him again. grow up & be careful always.
2007-02-02 21:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get pregnant even if your monthly cycle just ended. Always use condoms! Go to the doctor and ask about how to protect yourself from pregnancy and disease. You should use condoms every time you have sex until you are married. Trust me, there are so many diseases out there, and you wouldn't want any of them.
Frankly, to be safe from pregnancy, I would get the morning after pill, but you need to do it immediately. Your body can speed up production of an egg, and sperm can hang out around your ovaries (where nothing can reach them) for five days after sex. So, you can definitely get pregnant.
As for cleaning, just use water. You shouldn't douche, it creates an unhealthy environment. Nature will take care of it.
I guess congrats on losing your virginity. Now you need to grow up and take care of yourself.
2007-02-02 20:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's very normal to be worried the first time. I am sure you aren't pregnant being it is your first time but it is a rare occurrence. Question is did he withdraw during sex or not? If he didn't than you should worry, but if he did you should go get a test a few weeks from now to just be sure. There is nothing to do once the deed is done that I know of...I would suggest if you continue being unprotected to use a spermicide. Do not worry so much, I am sure there is nothing wrong with you.
2007-02-02 20:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Grrgoyale 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Please go to a health clinic and get tested for HIV, hepatitis and herpes. Start to use condoms. There is a 1 in 16 chance of getting pregnant the first time you have sex. You must discuss this matter with your boyfriend.
2007-02-02 20:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by wife of Ali Pasha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of all: Go to a good doctor or a family planning institute and get contraception. Right now! You are setting yourself up for a teen pregnancy and a miserable life. Please take responsibility!
2007-02-02 20:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear! Did you enjoy it? Want to do it again soon? The answers to that should be no! You really should know all your facts before you enter into having sex contraceptions, infections get yourself to a clinic straight away and please next time make sure your clued up!!!
2007-02-02 20:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by jaws 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl please do not think that because you just had your period you cant get pregnant. especially as a teenager you are not regular, you can get pregnant anytime. there is nothing wrong with condoms, next time he wants to have sex tell him he absolutely has to wear a condom, or your not doing anything with him. Oh yeah and just because you did it once dont think you have to sleep with him again,. Its completely up to you,. also, you mean to tell me that you let him finish inside of you? what were you thinking. Do you want a baby? believe me enjoy your youth, dont ruin it.
2007-02-02 20:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by monica your new bff 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to know the answer of this question BEFORE you have sex.... don't you think? By the way, if I may ask, How old are you?
2007-02-02 20:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. President 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋