He claims he looked itup on limewireand was trying to download it to see ifit was real or not........he alsosearched for "young sex"..kids f**king" and "very young girl sex"....He also had an incest downloaded (father daughter)We have a 3year old girl and I'm feeling VERY uncomfortable right now.
2007-02-02 20:12:42 · 9 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What should I do?How to handle this?
2007-02-02 20:36:00 · update #1
Get your child and leave when he is not at home. Plain and simple. Talking will do no good. Your child is at risk here.
I would also contact the police and report it. Husband or not, this needs to be stopped. Since he is lying about why and what he is doing, he has no desire to stop or change his behavior. Talking at this point is mute.
Get out and protect your child.
2007-02-03 02:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a real problem. I've never dealt with this so I don't really know what to tell you. Have you tried talking to him about this? If you do, do it gently. Don't be accusatory or too confrontational because this may make him angry and defensive. It could just be a fantasy and he may not act on it. But having a young child in the home I don't think you want to take that chance. I'm not really equipped to advise you on this. You need to talk to a professional about this.
2007-02-03 08:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, i I wouldn't know how to handle the situation. Why would he be searching for these, I don;t what you can do. I would be scared too - keep an eye of your little girl - if you feel for any reason he is doing anything physical you need to leave - you and your little girl does not need that. You should be able to trust your husband 100% if not it wont work. He shouldn't ever do it again if he was testing it this once - if he does it again I would start to wonder..... good luck with everything. i hope it works out .
2007-02-03 04:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your husband has some serious issues..... he wasn't just curious if it was "real" or not.... everyone knows that crap exists.... if he's looking that stuff up and also looking up incest (father/daughter) then I think that is a VERY clear sign that he is a pedophile and if I were you I would do something NOW before he rapes your daughter....... I don't feel sorry for you because I think that women are way too ignorant to see evil when it's staring in their face, and then pass on the good guys...... but your child has just started in this world and this is a time that could either make or break her mental self....... save her.
2007-02-03 04:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-04 02:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by beyondhelper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stamp this out now.
There is no reason at all for him to be there. Leave if you must to protect that child
2007-02-03 08:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My word - and so you should be. He sounds as though he is a bit of a pervert. Nip it in the bud now - take your daughter and run.
2007-02-03 04:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by celianne 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Make him seek therapy now or leave his *** for your little girls sake.
2007-02-03 21:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by n0s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats ****** up i wold like call the police or something
2007-02-03 04:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋