should i continue talking to him-plz help?

Question

one day i had a chat with someone
i told him everything false about me
and now he is not ready to brk the frndship
and if my momcome to know this i'll be dead
now tell me what to do

we r very gud frnds
we share everything with him
he belives me everything is normal
but what if my mother comes to know abt him

Answer 1

What friendship? There is no friendship. You told a stranger a bunch of lies. This does not make a friendship.

Answer 2

You did not write detatils like if the guy knows your home address or not, you have met him or not. If these two answers are negative than you should not worry at all. Everybody makes chat friends everyday giving false information. Those are just chat friends.If you want to go for further relation than you have to tell him all the truth. Continue your relationship in chatting until you stand on your own feet if you r so afraid of your mom.
But I don't pay so much attention to my chat friends.They are temporary.

Answer 3

Ur experiences are good, but u are agreeing honestly what had happened. U know that u are lying but he does not. May be he is also doing the same who knows. First u find out whether he is also telling truth. Try to meet him and enquire about him. If he is correct & suitable person then go ahead.

Answer 4

may i kknow ur ASL.if u r enough mature to handle all this sitution
then only u shd continue,i feel that u r innocent to handle all this
because the relationship only create the problm in the human life,but ur first duty is for ur parents than anyone else.suppose in future u may come across the problem ,then only urs parents will save u without any doubt.BECZ parents LUV is unselfish and unconditional for child,and how can u believe in stranger,within shortalk,so beter get rid if all these things

Answer 5

hi sweetie
i m in a similar situation like u but i didnt told any lie to him
the only thing i could suggest u is
tell him all the true things abt u
and let him decide to continue or not
if he say no than just find someone else
world is full of people
human only make mistakes but u must know how to solve them
tell me how ur mom can come to know abt this

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Answer 6

Why did you lie in the first place? You must be very uncomfortable with yourself to not let him know the real you. Talk to him and tell him the real you and maybe he'll understand and everything will be okay.
But you could make it easy and never talk to him again and just stop being friends with him. That way, your Mom will never know him.

Answer 7

i had the same problem once, i pretended to be someone else for a while (temporarly, it was all planned out i just wanted to get the truth about something) but then the person i was talking to began to like me, and we became good friends, i simply didnt talk to that person again and i just forgot about them. Here i am now, perfectly happy.

Answer 8

slowly tell that guy one thing at a time the truth. slowly, in conversation introduce the topic. secondly tell ur mother that ur friends with this guy. he would have forgotten what u had told him in conversation a long time ago. and see whwere it goes. if that guys really likes u he shouldnt have any problem adjusting to the new u.

Answer 9

hey cmon why to worry if u hv tyold everything false simply ignore & tell him that ur not interested any more. do u tell everthing to ur mom u do in daily life. if yes then tell her before he tells abt u. just be true in future & u'll be a happy girl.

bye

Answer 10

well if u talk to him make out that your changing in your ways cose you want to just work to undo what you said with time and dont let your mom see what your doing but learn from this to so you wlll remmber this later on we al learn from things we say and do in life and its never to late to change for the better.