okay theres this boy andy, i've like him for a couple months now, and i knew he liked me too but then out of no where he starts to ignore me. then theres this other boy matt, who i just started liking too, he's like my best friend now, after like just two weeks . and now i dont know who to chose . i still talk to andy sometimes, i loved the connection between us, but now he's fading away, and i've tried talking to him, he just doesnt seem to want to . while matt, he'll always there for me, and he really cares about me, and he's a really nice boy. while andy i just can't seem to let go of my past with him . me and andy ever never offical, but then we had this STRONG connection, he goes to a different skool, and he's ignorin me now, i know it sounds bad, but i just let go of him . matt and me always have something to talk about, i see him everyday, he's so nice to me, and he trying so hard to help me get over andy. i dont know who to chose . help?
2007-02-02 19:06:58 · 7 answers · asked by sillygirl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It seems you already chose Matt,and is the right decision, the memories of one person is not enough to hold a friendship.And no regrets about andy,not even thoughts about him, that's all that is holding your connection with andy, stop thinking about him and you'll see ...is no conection left, you are holding with you own strenght this ireal connection.Put all atention on Matt.
2007-02-02 19:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by bazbaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all if you think that school is spelled with a K, then you don't need to be worried about boys, you need to pay attention in class. However the answer to your question, is easy... If you had such a great "connection" with Andy, he wouldn't have started to ignore you. It sounds like you had the connection, but he was not aware of it. You also failed to mention just how long Andy and yourself dated, or talked ... or whatever. Did you actually go on a date with this boy, did he ever even officially say that you were a "couple"? If you're so connected to him after about a week or so... then you don't have a clue what a connection is. So if this Matt boy is showing interst and you are going to the same school... then go for Matt.
2007-02-02 19:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you had some strog connection with andy,
but if there is, then, he shouldn't be ignoring you just like that.
Obviously, he's avoiding you. You loved the cehmistry between you and andy, but do you think Andy still feels the same way with you?
Go for Matt. I think he cares a lot for you more than Andy. Besides, he sounds like a sweet guy. ü
2007-02-02 22:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for Matt
2007-02-02 19:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by jebjow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for Matt
Maybe Andy knows that he isint right for you and he is trying to keep away from you thinking you will loose interest in him
2007-02-02 23:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by mary L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of both guys. See which one who has better a better personality.
2007-02-03 04:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for Matt he obviously cares about you more
2007-02-02 22:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋