ok you see i like this one guy, we get along perfectly we have alot of fun but theres a problem...he has a girlfriend who just happens to be one of my closest friends...i know i should be having this feelings but i just cant help it...what should i do???
2007-02-02 18:47:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There's nothing wrong with having a good time with your friend's boyfriend. I guess it all depends on what you mean with "alot of fun". It's important to be open about it to all parties.
2007-02-02 18:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by hoohoonick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, seriously....back off from the guy you like. And look at it this way...are you thinking you want a relationship with this guy? I don't know if you and this guy have done anything but that is always a red flag(if he cheated on his girlfriend with you) and it is most certainly not a good way to start off a relationship with the guy. If he has cheated/leaves his girlfriend for you...what makes you think he won't do that to you? And, that's too bad that it is your best friend's boyfriend. This could also show what type of friend you are. Hope you make the right choice, I definetely wouldn't want to be in your shoes. Good luck!
2007-02-02 19:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your friendship. Although you may think this guy is great, I'm sure that your friend is too and deserve to be with someone who is a nice guy! Leave him alone! You can be his friend, but that is it! If it is really hard for you then avoid hanging out with him too much and putting yourself into a tempting situation. Friends are way to important to lose over a crush!
2007-02-02 20:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away!!!! it sounds silly doesn't it and i know being young and having a guy is great but think about it first his dating you friend think about this is he really worth it. you could go out with him and completly distroy your friendship with your friend or stayaway and see where you friend s relationship ends up and keep the friendship you have in tact.
2007-02-02 19:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by kaceek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you understand that when he is going out with you, that hes now unlikely to flow to another female and play round with her and care about HER a lot? you ought to easily leave them on my own and wait till they chop up extremely of being the girl that messes round with adult adult males which have female friends.
2016-12-03 09:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say wait until your girlfriend breaks up with him . then like help her get over him and then wait a while to ask her if you could go out with him, or like him . then check if he likes you . then you're all set , a long way to go but the easiest way not to cause any trouble .
2007-02-02 18:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by sillygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just stay friends obviously.
2007-02-03 00:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a new guy
2007-02-02 19:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋