So I heard that this guys wants to ask me to the upcomming dance, and I would rather not go with him. It is a dance that you dont need a date to so I just wanted to go with my friends. I have already gone to a dance with him and it was not the greatest but he is one of my friends and has a huge crush on me. What do I do?
2007-02-02 17:17:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Just tell him you are going with a group of friends. honesty and no hurt feelings hhmm
2007-02-02 17:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by katlady927 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go with you & all your friends. That sends a clear message that you see him as a friend & nothing more & it also puts you in control of doing the asking. It also lets him know you plan on going with your friends. It's 2007! Stop waiting for guys to make the moves & wondering what to do when they ask. Take control of the situation yourself.
2007-02-03 01:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. That you and your friend have already made plans to go to the dance together.
2007-02-03 01:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to go just as friends.
2007-02-03 01:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by zeroartmac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up. And see if someone else wants to go with him. Kind of a "Sorry you didn't win, but here is a lovely parting gift."
2007-02-03 01:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by Son of a Mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go stag, what ever happens at the dance happens
2007-02-03 01:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him...don't lead him on...just tell him you had rather go with your friends and that you like him as a friend but not as a boyfriend........â¥
2007-02-03 01:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just go by your self with your friends if you desire.
2007-02-03 01:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by Justin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he even asked you yet? Maybe he won't.
2007-02-03 02:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by noonecanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him.. just say you'd rather go by yourself..
2007-02-03 01:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋